Dr. Angelica Shiels
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Sarah Widener :
Adults have way higher standards for kids than we could ever keep up ourselves. I think this makes a lot of sense!
2024-02-08 21:24:43
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Prairie Madonna :
usually kids who are defiant towards authority or leadership is because they can't trust their own parents to take their self interest into account
2024-02-08 22:52:03
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Thomas Mac :
Low demand parenting has changed my life with my neurospicy kids. It’s 100% the best thing ever and would work for any kids.
2024-02-09 01:09:47
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Bookishquilter :
Parenting my pda kid improved my parenting with my non-pda kids. Looking back I fit the pda profile as a kid. It explains the adversarial relationship
2024-02-08 20:18:35
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Realtor | Auburn, CA | Brianna :
Because no one taught us how to parent & a lot of our parents were at work all day while we were home alone 😂 I’m learning 😬
2024-02-08 20:21:26
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AncientWords :
I naturally did this with my daughter who we now know is on the spectrum…she’s 20 & lives at college & interns at NASA. Instincts & empathy
2024-02-09 06:09:45
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jude :
I was diagnosed with ODD and "disruptive mood disorder" as a kid. received testing as an adult, turns out it was PDA and autism the whole time
2024-02-08 22:10:56
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stac.lynn84 :
I like to say, “find a good stopping place,” before giving the directive.
2024-02-09 00:46:54
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coll 💜💜💜 :
Psych diagnosed my daughter as ODD in the 90s. Suggested she be on meds. Didn’t do it. Turns out she’s very empathic and picks up on others energy.
2024-02-08 21:04:26
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jaymed1011 :
My daughter was just diagnosed with Autism & I said I feel like everyone DESERVES what she NEEDS as an ASD kid.
2024-02-09 01:52:51
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Veronica :
Yes. It’s so hard to remember this sometimes. I struggle. Because I don’t want to “baby” but I also know what it’s like to NOT want to do something
2024-02-08 21:46:12
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Theresa :
I'm basically low demand and gentle parenting my partner (and myself). He has some trauma, and we just need to exist and get through the week
2024-02-09 06:33:51
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Tink💫 :
I literally cry that I didn’t t know this when my kids were little ! I’m so proud of today’s parents who pay attention. We do better when we know better. 💜
2024-02-09 01:32:00
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YEETWOOD.MAC 🏳️🌈🍉 :
My son is only 2.5 but consistently every single time we give him some freedom of a controlled choice (like blue diaper or red diaper) he THRIVES in hard situations. It’s so amazing to watch
2024-02-08 23:07:31
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Luna :
hell my adult pda profile autism needs this
2024-02-08 20:29:21
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Alexblue :
I am slowly dropping demands when I can. I would like to hear more discussion about screens. I used to restrict them, and my kids did benefit from lots of unstructured play, but that made demands on
2024-02-09 19:38:10
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Bubblegum_and_Bandaids :
Agreed. My oldest was diagnosed with ODD- and I regret that so much. It really was the result of my inability to attune and parent in a respectful way.
2024-02-08 23:03:00
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Bookishquilter :
A great example I do is “hey, when this episode is done please pause the show and clean up this living room. It’s amazing how adapting my “demands”
2024-02-08 20:22:11
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Jill 🇨🇦 :
Low demand is more or less that. Just less demand on everyone. Less sports, less cleaning, less rules. Connection, Communication, Boundaries, Privileges and Consequences. All 5 work for every age
2024-02-08 20:33:35
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Annaka (An-Nuh-Kuh) :
I've seen that many of us managing AuDHD, have a drive to share helpful info & work in a helping professions.
2024-02-10 02:48:29
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✨🌙 Moonchild Mama 🌙✨ :
I have ASD and I was raised by someone with NPD. This is all I needed in life. Thank you!
2024-02-08 23:23:01
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Hamana🍉Hamana :
Hi there PDA AuDHD here homeschooling & parenting another PDA AuDHD.There is no choice but attunement, non coercion, prioritizing connection & agency.
2024-02-08 22:41:18
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LindaBelcher :
So the defining characteristic for PDA is an anxiety response to demands that is sometimes so intense that even pleasant things or the demands of our-
2024-02-08 23:38:25
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pugmomma101 :
my asd kids have taught me low demand humaning with everyone. ppl tell me I'm so laid back and calm. they taught me how to be that way
2024-02-08 20:42:34
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Shiloh :
Get yourself regulated as a parent and it becomes much easier to make the decision where a hard boundary needs to be set and when to be flexible.
2024-02-11 16:20:14
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