The Enchanted Nanny
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Allyss Victoria :
Your children are going to grow into the adults I yell ‘YOUR WELCOME’ at..
2024-02-24 22:50:32
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aevkrr180 :
what age are you talking about here? my 3 year old naturally says please and thank you however that's because I've taught it from day 1.
2024-02-25 19:46:58
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Mia Moo and friends 🎀 :
My daughter is two. I’ve always taught her to say please and thank you and now she says it sincerely without prompting 🥰
2024-02-09 22:34:41
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BOA :
I do, manners and kindness are my only boundaries
2024-02-25 05:51:40
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Caroline Blake :
Absolutely! Model the behaviours you want to see.
2024-03-31 21:16:32
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Bernie Evans 🇬🇧 :
As a teacher of forty years, I respectfully disagree. I explicitly teach table manners, how to apologise, politeness, etc. some children need it.
2024-02-25 09:38:07
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User4947448 :
Do you also love a gooseberry and cinnamon yoghurt?
2024-04-27 07:35:55
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GamerGirl_1990 :
I love this my daughter’s dad is incessant on “reminding” my now 5 year old to use her manners. It just feels ppl pleaser.. it gives me the ick. I prefer the modeling approach personally.
2025-01-17 13:29:33
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Marsha Marsha Marsha :
Children learn by example
2024-02-11 06:52:09
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Ryan Morrison :
Children learn from our example. It also doesn’t hurt to remind them if they forget
2024-02-25 17:20:06
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#Hatefield :
I expected to disagree, but I do think leading by example is a great way to teach children.
2024-02-25 11:18:32
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Matt Davies :
Reminding them is teaching. Works for most people so why bother creating a system.
2024-02-25 21:34:31
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charlottemulcahy6 :
I find this so, so interesting. just wondering what you do in a scenario where your child doesn't say thank you?
2024-02-09 16:06:41
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Margaret W. :
But that’s exactly how children learn things by copying. Sounds a bit condescending with the servers etc.
2024-02-25 08:57:32
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Nina Biles115 :
Sorry I think you are wrong
2024-02-25 11:48:28
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Melissa :
I inadvertently thought my toddler this because I also thank her and my husband for basically everything. At 20 months she says it herself most times
2024-02-08 22:49:13
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Rob Jackson71 :
My children are amazing because they copy me and I’m just amazing 😂
2024-02-25 00:36:17
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bozobertie :
And what’s happens if they don’t ? What’s the next step to reenforce
2024-02-10 01:29:30
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Alice - Creator Marketing :
This is such a good idea 🥰
2024-02-08 22:04:26
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Sarah Abbott9016 :
Modelling is great but sometimes all children need reminders.
2024-02-25 22:20:26
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Kate Emma :
And this is why we have the youth of today…. Entitled
2024-02-25 08:18:09
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David del mar :
So they just copy you without actually being taught or knowing WHY they should say thank you and please. They see and do. And you’re proud of that?
2024-02-10 10:59:25
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Alex I :
My son loves saying thank you because we always say “no worries” in response and for some reason he loves that 😂
2024-02-09 09:54:55
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flowertreetomato :
I do both! Model and coach and explain why. Doesn’t have to be meaningless just because it’s encouraged.
2024-02-27 21:46:49
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Cx :
Manners are the baseline of social respect. Teach them to your children. It’s the bare minimum
2024-02-26 01:28:01
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user5209434101225 :
Let’s hope that all teachers will do that at school
2024-02-25 12:09:17
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madison.ez :
I'm autistic, I hardly ever say thank you 'genuinely' but I've learned people don't care if it's real. they just want to be thanked.
2024-02-24 18:48:38
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Roxy Lewis :
forcing kids to say "sorry" is also one that I think is seriously detrimental. they need to understand feeling sorry, not just saying it!
2024-02-09 21:14:49
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chelseeeab123 :
this works! I never 'taught' my daughter to say thinking and at 17 months she says thankyou alllll the time.
2024-02-09 16:40:29
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Natalia :
I saw the title I thought this is ridiculous but then I listened and this is genius! I'm definitely gonna take this approach!
2024-02-08 21:05:28
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mel :
when my son randomly says 'thank you mummy' after I give him something.. my heart melts! I always say thank you to him when he gives me things. he's 2
2024-03-03 19:10:28
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Leigh Catherine Ibbotson :
teaching them good habits by reminding them
2024-03-02 11:26:22
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Katie :
And do they say Thankyou every time ?
2024-03-01 19:49:04
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user4103045698857 :
I think it needs to be a mixture of both! I always say thank you in the manner you state, but for a child a reminder does no harm at all!
2024-02-27 11:28:00
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sweetbirds :
But it’s manners
2024-02-27 08:53:04
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luciethwaites :
Well you should. Manners are super important.
2024-02-25 23:32:10
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user8969871640376 :
i just use manners towards my child from day 1 then naturally it becomes part of their vocabulary you are their biggest teacher
2024-02-25 23:12:33
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CHSSapphicAuthor🏳️🌈🇬🇧✒️ :
as they say with writing...always show, don't tell... kids learn like little sponges, don't they!
2024-02-25 21:02:29
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Katie_Bucks_17 :
Actually, I never thought about it this way, new Follower
2024-02-25 17:39:12
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Addy :
Manners cost nothing 👍
2024-02-25 17:08:45
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Rhianne Buckley248 :
yes! we've never asked ours to say please or thankyou. we just model. they're SO polite
2024-02-25 16:58:03
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Sheryl Jolley :
Wow and why is that so amazing
2024-02-25 15:40:30
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Anna Theresa :
Why would saying thank you be a shame thing? How bizarre.
2024-02-25 12:33:50
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Pablo :
Same. Our 2 y/o says thank you on her own. We’ve never told her to say it, or even taught her it. She’s just learned it by observing. Be a model.
2024-02-25 10:18:31
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Allana💖 :
I get it, but also your over the top gratitude isn’t really real either so seems like you’re trying not to tell them something you’re already doing.
2024-02-25 07:08:31
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mlcroker :
manners are so important. my children are always reminded
2024-02-14 15:57:50
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Scott Barrett :
@Chlo 🤍✨
2024-02-09 18:38:06
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Tricker Treat :
Parenting is SO MUCH EASIER when do as I do is a natural teacher. I also never "thought" my son please & thank you, he just picked it up as part of1/2
2024-02-09 13:24:15
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The Realistic Health Visitor :
This approach works! I would be mortified when I asked my toddler to say thank you and he wouldn’t. I stopped doing it and now he just says it, no pressure, no embarrassment 👍
2024-02-09 12:07:03
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