alex on a budget
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Cj Arnott :
Hubs & I have 4 kids between us, so fam of 6. Life is miserable. Had I known how things would become, I would’ve chose differently. For their sakes 😭
2024-03-03 00:35:31
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Yen Guardiola :
We can’t figure it out being with no support system in the US. It’s like working to pay the daycare.
2024-02-13 19:02:15
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EllenW76 :
One of the reasons I love your account is that I get to see another child-free couple in their thirties 🥰
2024-02-13 20:32:24
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VictoriaOrtegaVial :
totally agree with you
2024-04-10 01:27:38
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Ho :
I love being childfree ❤️
2024-02-12 20:55:35
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emtredwen :
We have 4 children and it just all falls into place we budget around the kids . We are blended family and we are getting married next month on a budget next step a house 🤍 you just make it work x
2024-09-08 08:31:05
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Stella L :
I m a 52 year old mother who tells her 2 daughters that life can be beautiful with or without children, and that every choice is respectable.
2024-02-12 17:26:58
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PersianDollTarot :
I’m not gonna lie the other day I got a pregnancy test just to make sure I don’t have kids on the way and I was so happy celebrating
2024-03-21 22:51:10
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Huda 🕋 :
Im child free and I have zero regrets. I could afford if I wanted but I rather spend on me.
2024-02-12 16:15:44
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iam_you_and_you_i :
Team no kids here 😂
2024-02-12 16:19:25
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Ane :
I'm almost 32, my partner Is 36. we're immigrants too living in a tiny studio apartment and in a very similar situation.I make myself the same questio
2024-02-12 16:14:56
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Ana :
That’s what my parents don’t understand. Could we kinda make it work-yes. But I don’t want to struggle. I literally can relate to 💯 of what you say
2024-02-12 18:16:00
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Jen :
Parenting is the most expensive time intensive hobby you will ever have. Don’t do it and unless you have a strong desire. The US makes it too hard.
2024-02-12 19:49:21
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Laury Nunez :
You make a decent amount of money but having kids is a personal choice. 💖
2024-02-12 19:23:01
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Ania Wolna :
I liked when towards the end you said that we deserve to be able to have the things we want in life, including kids. it's so hard these days
2024-02-13 07:14:12
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luxuriousallure :
This scenario applies in many places (countries). The cost of a good life is high even for basic things.
2024-02-12 16:56:32
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Daniela Castelan895 :
All of us parents struggle but those tiny hugs and memories are priceless
2024-02-12 20:51:02
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Elizabeth Olide :
I get so frustrated when people ask us when we’re going to have kids , because me and my husband enjoy our alone time together travel while we can kids it’s not our priority
2024-02-12 16:56:47
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shelbyhi :
As a mom of two I applaud those who choose to live child free! We need more parents who understand fully the lifelong commitment it requires to raise
2024-02-23 03:00:33
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Milene :
I’m 41 with 2 kids and still don’t know how to afford them. 🙃
2024-02-13 00:24:37
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Jennifer Diaz :
Honestly I paid off most of my debt before having kids. But now that I have one, we just do it. I watch my spending and budget everything.
2024-02-12 20:59:35
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Andri Efstathiou :
we don't do everything! we both work, we prioritise the needs of our children. we teach them not to want too much.we love them more than ourselves ❤️
2024-02-12 16:21:26
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Suzanna :
That is life with kids work study and being a single mum it’s damn hard work
2024-02-13 06:17:10
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HanlieLR :
Did you do a video about the layout of your beautiful apartment, been trying to get it into mind. Love your simplicity
2024-02-12 16:17:18
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Jelly🌷💐🌸🍀 :
Oh, i think i just realised how your place looks like...than congrats on how good you edit&change camera points 🤩
2024-02-12 16:05:26
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Lore88🩵 :
We got our finances sorted first and now at 35 having our first child. We saved money to buy the stuff we would need for the baby and we also have bought second hand stuff as well.
2024-04-06 17:01:46
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Jacky :
Honestly, the exact path that you and your husband have chosen to get out of debt, but to also live the lives that you want is the right thing to do if you do decide to have a child in the future
2024-03-12 20:36:02
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Meche🌼 :
Agree 300%, don't want to bring kids if it means we will struggle, they don't deserve that
2024-02-16 18:35:23
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K :
I love your monologues.
2024-02-12 23:38:48
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Shar :
Your concerns are all valid. I’m a 33 yr old preg with my first. One thing I’d say you shouldn’t worry about is buying a home. It’s honestly
2024-02-12 20:51:04
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يسرا 🦋 :
Hello, I like your account and all the advices you give. But tbh, you think a lot about money, saving and all. You can have children and still live a comfortable life.
2024-02-12 20:48:25
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Sel ✨ :
I don’t either sis 🤣 but I do want at least one child. I know my priorities will shift.
2024-02-12 16:40:55
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MiraE :
I truly want kids but these same questions are stopping me. Breaks my heart that the base worry I have is if I can even afford to have them😭
2024-02-12 16:36:29
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Frugal Weirdo :
I think you are very wise to think like that. Too many people make having children a mindless choice, almost by accident, without having their economy sorted out.👍
2024-03-17 19:00:15
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Rebek Calvo 🍉 :
Pienso igual.
2024-03-13 03:02:23
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Jess :
Mom of an only child, not by choice. We definitely struggled as I was a teen mom but we make so much now. Now I want another and I can’t without IVF. 🙇🏻♀️
2024-03-09 14:53:39
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𝐃𝐑. 𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐏𝐇 🕊 :
I think it’s an important conversation to have with your partner to evaluate what the priorities are 🤍. Either route one takes isn’t wrong kids/ no kids as it is what works for you both 🤍
2024-03-07 15:06:39
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Unicorns Rule 🦄 :
I think this is one of those sit down conversations, not easily answered in a post 💜 I had a kid unplanned and somehow he is still alive and we are thriving. But I fully respect it isn’t for everyone
2024-03-04 23:19:02
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VeeCee92 :
Is this the small studio you were talking about?
2024-02-27 03:31:30
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user9406189223737 :
It is a struggle… but for me worth it. The struggle will be for a little bit only I hope!
2024-02-20 20:50:51
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rishen047 :
people tell me im selfish wen i tell dem we@ decided nt to have kids bt everything u said is that same reason
2024-02-18 17:58:32
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alizeelage :
I feel the same
2024-02-16 02:31:58
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Mvb :
i think living in the us could be a big part of the problem..
2024-02-13 23:54:11
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Cassidy :
I actually would be worried for my mental health doing what I’m doing now and add a child on top of that 😅
2024-02-13 22:49:25
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