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@americanfille: Hyper independence #hyperindependence

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Wednesday 14 February 2024 07:35:45 GMT

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TP-D :

Hyper independence stems from heart break and pain.

Mark Addona :

And the paradox is people view you as being strong and then offer less and less help in life

HelloJRo :

I don’t look for that romantic attachment. It’s likely part of my hyper independence.

Jasmine M :

🥲🥲“People who are hyper independent don’t want to be. They are out of necessity”

sarah lugor :

and then you attract people who cling to your support bc they view your independence as a superpower, instead of a survival tactic.

sierrakhai :

My mom always says “I never have to worry about you” not knowing I’m constantly struggling 😅

Chris Westenhouser :

survival mode doesn't allow the luxury of trusting others with your stability

goldenmej :

'you have your friends for that' I absolutely do not

TheLizardKing :

Some of us had to become our Safe Person.

Megan 🫧💕 :

Worst part is when you thought you had those familial relationships but what they loved was your hyper independence.

Søren :

People don’t understand how isolating it is to not have even one safe, reliable person & it feels so alienating

melanie :

I am so bone-tired of being strong and resilient 💔

Tre :

When I tell you, you hit every point that I’m feeling, it’s an understatement.

lvboney :

& nobody talks about the, bitterness/resentment/ and anger that comes with being hyper independent for so long. we want so badly to trust and let go😭

Cindyinfj :

I call it “adult orphans” 😭

cirquedevic :

This actually brings me a lot of comfort. You articulated it perfectly

sheabutterchi :

Fyp is fyping

mik :

Having present, supportive parents is a privilege

Mary (she/her) 🍉 :

This is why breakups for hyper independent people is so hard! You are left without a family again and no support suddenly (and this is always a threat the entire time too)

bita :

GIRL I FEEL SO SEEN

Fantastic Mr Font :

The “should I move to another country” feeling is sooo real! I think this all the time!

Josh B :

This is the single hardest part of dating as person w/ trauma. I desire such a deep type of connection that is unfair to ask a stranger to commit to.

✨ Life Annotations✨ :

And we become hyper independent because we HAVE to be!

Just Julia :

I dream of never being called resilient again. I’m exhausted by strength. I want support softness and ease. Not patted on the back for how well 1/2

Alex ✨ :

Quite possibly the most relatable tiktok ive ever seen

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