@professor.steph: Valentine’s Day gift giving can be tricky. Wow your partner by learning how to switch btwn validation and problem solving! Your partner will love it 💝💘🤪 Real talk, couples can massively benefit from learning how to validate each other. It can soothe conflict cycles, promote healing, and overall improve your psychological health! Not to mention, validating meets a normal emotional need in all people! Heads up, this skit is slightly adapted from a YT video from ~9+yrs ago called “nail in head validation.” What Ive done is upgraded the validation and added organic problem solving (in the YT the validation example is the absolute bare bones pull-cord phrase, “that sounds hard.” 😐) I want my followers to learn how to validate better than that! If youre interested in this, sign up in my bio to get infrequent updates regarding the release of my book on Validation! #validation #couples #couplescomedy #couple #skit #funny #ValentinesDay #valentine #valentinesday2024 #psychology #therapy #therapytiktok #therapistsontiktok #therapist #marriage #divorce #Relationship #relationships #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #attachment #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #disorganizedattachment #avoidantattachment #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #dbt

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Jenna LaMere :

Yes! This is my favorite example from the “nail in the forehead” skit! 🤗 It’s cute with the arrow and we need it revived. 💃

2024-02-15 12:02:33

Kait :

This is hands down the biggest thing my spouse & I have to be conscious of b/c he’s a natural problem solver & I seek validation a lot from trauma.

2024-02-15 16:21:06

ellencrawford393 :

How do I find a you to be my therapist

2024-06-13 16:03:30

Miley Reyna :

I struggle SO HARD with this. The “I’ll keep it in frame so I could be more accountable” bit would have had me peeling my skin off.

2024-02-18 19:25:40

Hoochie La Hoot :

I always start with validation. some people respond to validation poorly though when they do want their problem solved. lol

2024-02-19 02:04:42

James 'thegreatgaskey' :

😂 very cute and excellent example 🙏☺️

2024-02-15 04:41:41

Metra :

I have never thought of others providing validation as a feeling of being helpless on their end. Thanks for that view!

2024-03-11 00:33:17

🆘🇺🇸 🇺🇦❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤 :

I love this example ❤️

2024-02-15 13:15:13

Mom2many 🇨🇦 🇺🇲 🇺🇳 :

We've been married 19 years and, when disagreements start to go sideways, I step back to this.

2024-02-19 21:00:15

👀 Amanda Lynn :

@Morgannnn THISSS is the nail in the forehead.. not the video I was talking about but the message is the same! 🥰

2024-02-15 17:58:55

Oceana :

😂🥰

2024-02-15 16:26:01

Lady Fomo :

😂😂😂

2024-02-15 04:25:55

Tata💐 :

I was able to save my relationship with the good spell reading of @Physic spell and Astrology 📿📿

2024-02-15 06:01:55

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