@nickmatiash: Aaron done messed up. Don’t be like aaron when trying to save your marriage post infidelity. I reslly hope someone notices why i used the name Aaron 😂 #evolvedman #nickmatiash #relationshiptiktok #marriagetiktok #relationshipproblems #relationshipadvice #adviceformen relationship advice
I got "I dont want to pay for this for the rest of my life" screamed at me. I said quietly "but I have to live with it"
2024-02-21 10:41:25
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Melissa Mendoza :
Yeah … might as well leave him men don’t change they just get better at hiding their affairs
2024-02-21 13:58:07
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Jayne :
It took a year to fill that trust bucket and he kicked it over, now it’s empty again. Good job A A Ron. 😂
2024-02-21 15:37:09
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John W Smith :
3 months, 6 mths, 1 year, 5 years, even 10+ years. Always stay in the accountability and responsibility lane. Always and forever.
2024-02-21 14:32:42
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Meggie :
my ex asked for a "clean slate" THE NEXT DAY. 🙄
2024-02-21 18:05:48
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ally_brownnnnnnnnnnn :
This is why my husband knows there is a zero chance of me staying if he cheats. I refuse to live with it and the anxiety that comes with it.
2024-02-21 12:35:06
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jennamatlin :
betrayal trauma takes 2 to 5 years to heal from. most abusive adulterers are incapable of being empathetic that long
2024-02-21 12:21:11
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Harley :
Guys still get mad about a game their favorite team lost 20 years ago, but expect their spouse to get over cheating in a few weeks.
2024-03-27 17:10:49
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AlyciaJ :
My now husband cheated once and we got through it but sometimes something comes up and an image of them pops into my head. I tell my husband and he’s so sweet about listening and comforting me.
2024-02-21 09:58:01
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Jennei :
The way I would just cheat back and act like nothing 😂🥰💀
2024-02-21 06:19:10
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UnHa :
not my fyp give it to him
2024-02-21 16:42:55
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Hope Ann :
Just separate immediately. She has to live with it the rest of her life and he’ll have to pay for it the rest of his. It’s just better to cut ties
2024-02-21 12:45:35
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CC Sheffield ▕⃝⃤ :
I will never accept cheating ever again. i can't get past it. ill hold a grudge forever. I stayed with my ex for 14 years. I was miserable
2024-02-21 18:20:02
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f0rthel0ve :
im writing that "stay in the lane of the lane of accountability" quote down so damn fast!!
2024-02-21 12:55:04
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KindaNotSoCrunchy :
I would cheat back with the guy he worries most about and then leave with no explanation
2024-02-22 01:39:35
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Shesascorp79 :
This so why… no take backs‼️I have a one n done rule and make it clear right off the rip. Do me wrong in ANY WAY n I’m out n i’d expect the same in return. 😌
2024-02-21 09:51:29
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Annieann :
Because you broke my heart into a million pieces is very accurate!
2024-02-23 01:23:57
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Epicurean Wannabe :
I can’t SEE the name “Aaron” without quoting that sketch in my head!
2024-02-21 04:03:48
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Miraclius :
ORRRR you can just leave them 😂 much easier
2024-02-22 17:53:14
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Jana 🔥🗑️ :
“You should be past this” feels like “I am doing better for now just so you won’t be mad but I don’t intend on actually changing”
2024-02-22 18:42:30
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Emria (Em-ree-uh) :
You done messed up AYAYRON!
2024-02-21 06:57:36
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Lillie :
he cheated, left me for her, and when I let him back I was expected to be over it immediately. he was allowed to "grieve" his affair but I couldn't grieve my marriage that would never be the same.
2024-02-21 12:08:42
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Lyss N :
lol as someone who was cheated on by an Aaron, I can confirm he won’t do the work even if he says he will. 6 years and an engagement down the drain.
2024-02-21 14:55:46
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TMADE1989 :
It’s been 4 years and I’m still not over it…
2024-02-27 23:18:51
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joonuper :
Please understand- the woman DOESN’T WANT TO FEEL THIS WAY. I feel like some men think we relish in “rehashing it” - WE DON’T.
2024-02-23 08:59:58
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Clarissa Lisenby :
My husband and I are 7 years out, and he continues on the path of accountability. We went to therapy separately and together. I know it'll never happen again. We choose each other daily.
2024-02-26 21:19:45
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Vanessa Walker :
Ouch. I’m done with tic tok today.
2024-02-21 06:39:41
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C.H :
Can this still work with emotional cheating? My mind is all over the place still 2 months later of the "what if I didn't see the flirty messages, how far would it have gone"
2024-03-11 10:25:47
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Chaos_tm :
Too risky to repost
2024-02-21 12:59:24
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✨️Tisha✨️ :
I'd literally never forgive you. it's done forever, no matter how much I loved you before, you ruined it. women shouldn't stay.
2024-02-21 11:46:54
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Cortney (Taylor’s Version) :
Yep. The pain pops up randomly, even 4 years later.
2024-02-23 19:35:08
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🖤👻Danielle Trivett👻🖤 :
Lmao my ex husband expected me to be past it after a month.
2024-03-01 17:48:07
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teairak98 :
@David Heatherly You wanting me to be past it a week later.
2024-02-26 21:38:28
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Milestones and Macros w/ Sam :
this is why I don't think we could survive infidelity. I would try to work past it, but I don't think I could ever leave it in the past.
2024-02-22 05:10:22
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bhalooishere :
keep taking accountability till you die brother. it's always your fault. remember this and you will win in the end with death
2024-02-28 15:52:24
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Justme67 :
Yep ex did exactly this. I was told get over it. Found out he never stopped cheating. 33 y marriage destroyed.
2024-02-22 01:27:43
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user9717962927241 :
we tried to make it 3 times.I found myself driving in the middle of the night to his place to make sure she was not there. I could never go back again
2024-02-21 14:43:37
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luamistica81 :
This is exactly what I tried to convey to my person...he just did not understand or chose not too
2024-02-21 12:08:45
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Jade allison :
You have become a household name for us. We’ve done a lot of work together, thanks to you and your team. Our first counseling session is in a week
2024-02-25 14:46:22
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alienøverlørd :
this is part of what ruined my last relationship. to you it was 2 years ago- to me I had just found out.
2024-02-27 00:22:53
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maddie :
his fyp not mine
2024-02-22 04:32:41
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SwiftFox5280 :
So much better for everyone to just end the relationship as it's generally broken beyond repair. I would never stay.
2024-02-22 14:45:16
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Bailey bee🐝 :
8 years later he still sits and listens to me about what he did and how I’m feeling in that moment. He did the work and I’m so happy he grew
2024-02-23 17:51:53
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Jackie :
Not me literally investigating my husband bc of tiktok tarot cards. NOW THEY WANT ME TO STAY WITH HIM. THIS ALL HAPPENED TWO HOURS AGO GIVE ME A BREAK
2024-02-22 12:13:08
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Magic Lee :
It applies to every breach in trust too.
2024-02-21 16:55:26
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💙 Kaji 💙 :
3 years ago my hubs cheated. last summer he asked if it was OK with me for him to go to lunch with one of his 🙍♀️coworkers. I had a bad....
2024-02-27 08:57:03
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Cooking four men :
12 years, 4 months and 3 days. It still hurts like yesterday
2024-02-22 20:20:31
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Oh :
@N3phi11im you are Aaron :P
2024-02-22 18:24:15
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