🧿 Irreverent Rev. Chris 🧿
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Lindsey Hinds :
I don’t look for patterns, they just leap out at me and smash me over the head.
2024-02-24 22:45:21
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She Said Arrogantly :
So…. How do I stop myself from being acoustic? Bc, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to stop patterning their behavior
2024-02-22 18:22:19
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KDuffey :
true for me. my narcissistic boyfriend gets me every time. 😡
2024-08-13 03:48:51
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goose girl :
Can you give more specific examples? Thank you for this video!
2024-02-22 16:23:26
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Krustybunny :
And once again I’m in the “is it autism or trauma” pool of figuring out my bs😂
2024-02-22 15:54:14
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Pat :
What if they see patterns from past relationships and think I mean harm when I just make mistakes?
2024-03-11 01:16:02
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mixedfaceswildspaces :
My partner: “are you reading my body language and adjusting your behavior based off of it?” Me: “😅 … yes “
2024-02-22 13:05:09
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Cheyenne Wasayquom A :
I’ve always said I trust patterns not words! I do this for every relationship, even coworkers
2024-02-21 22:09:56
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hanabana91 :
but how are patterns not rules?
2024-10-14 17:21:29
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Jenny 🍉🏳️🌈💫 :
If me and my ex had both known we were autistic we might still be together. We both projected much from our family dynamics. Could have been simpler.
2024-02-21 21:08:24
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nosfurrcatu :
My problem is when I notice patterns and get used to it then they switch it up and now I spiral bc wdym the sudden change doesn’t mean anything 😭
2024-02-22 15:48:05
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Jordan & Marvelle Candleworks :
This just explained so much about myself 🫠
2024-02-22 23:37:15
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HotMess :
yup! I do this. I've spent a long time learning about behaviour patterns and how to read them 🤣
2024-02-22 20:59:16
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Shelley Duvall :
I gotta say tho for all the allistics I've dated it's wild how often I've deduced their patterns/feelings before they knew they thought/felt that way
2024-03-01 05:56:20
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ishkitty :
Omfg. Wow. My ex thought I was too rigid. But if I ask for X and you have said no twice, that means X is never an option ever.
2024-02-22 15:43:17
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e.klab :
are we not supposed to do that 😭
2024-03-11 05:31:06
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Satan Iz Real :
But how do we bring this up without someone feeling “studied”
2024-03-05 07:50:39
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Mindy :
Jesus, I didn't realize this was a thing. I thought I was just weird. if their pattern changes, I automatically think something's wrong.
2024-02-22 14:11:20
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Jenna 📚❤️🔥 :
and if the pattern is “my request/needs aren’t remembered” I will make a system and they still aren’t happy about it 🫣
2024-02-22 20:10:38
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Olivia Lothary :
And yet therapy is trying to tell me to stop my rules-seeling behavior or pattern seeking behavior 😭
2024-02-22 17:02:45
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Bathtub Ophelia 🥀 :
So we can’t trust their words and we can’t trust their behaviors. Yeah that’s been my experience
2024-02-22 15:48:32
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Maggie is Neurodivergent :
My former boss used to make fun of me for “making up rules” based on patterns I observed
2024-02-22 17:25:48
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