@enquiryco: “SHARING” IS NOT CARING 🙅🏻‍♀️ Sharing is grown up idea invented to try to keep toddlers from crying. And it doesn’t even do that. If a child using something, they don’t need to stop just because someone else wants it. Toddlers are not developmentally able to cooperate. They play NEXT TO each other, not WITH each other. This doesn’t mean they can’t practice interacting in a considerate way. But we need to be realistic about what we expect a child’s social skills to be like. AND I’m wayyy more interested in teaching toddlers how to hold personal boundaries than to be generous (that comes when they’re a little older). #toddlerbehavior #toddlersharing #sharingiscaring #toddlerteacher #toddlertips #toddlerexpert

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scattered.constellation
🧿💫🪬 :
i think there’s a huge difference between a toy that child owns versus like communal toys in a classroom or at the library or something.
2024-02-25 20:55:51
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musclemommybobbie
MuscleMommy :
My kids took a toy to the park and another mom expected my kids to let her kid to play with it… no… absolutely not.
2024-02-28 05:39:23
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lexaprofessionalwrestler
BP :
It’s so uncomfy when other moms expect my kids to take turns like sis I’m not asking you for a turn with your phone? 😅
2024-02-23 14:17:20
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alyssavail1
Alyssa Vail :
I say “sharing does not mean they give it to you just because you want it” to the kids I work with
2024-02-23 13:47:54
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monarch29684
Monarch29684 :
In my opinion sharing is, “I have 10 blocks and my friend has none so I give them 5 so we can build together” not “my friend has what I want so I give it to them”
2024-02-24 15:00:11
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the.queen.t_
T :
Early educator. Parents freak when I say I don’t teach to share. I teach to take turns. As in when I’m done, you go
2024-02-24 16:43:50
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kcindallas
KcInDallas :
Eh. Today I told my girl “you can only bring your doll if you can share. If you can’t, that’s okay she’ll just need to stay in the car.” Worked out.
2024-02-26 01:07:59
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jmdem444
jmd :
I had to unlearn this as a parent. Also, the “be friends w everyone” mindset. It’s ok to not want to be friends; just be nice. Decades of conditioning
2024-02-26 02:47:38
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dwe8775
lhj9700 :
I think a lot of people misunderstand sharing as “give it right now bc they want it” when really it’s usually more about taking turns
2024-02-23 15:16:55
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ashleymackley
aMack :
I do this with my kids and it’s amazing. No tantrums, just patience building and courtesy
2024-03-07 02:41:04
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padoramonium
Matt Ryan Padora :
Somethings are one-person things!
2024-02-23 02:52:39
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picolochelseamain
PicoloChelsea :
if in a playgroup setting & my son is hoarding all the cars, I will ask him to share and he can keep 2, we have 2 hands so we don't need more than 2
2024-02-27 22:00:40
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poetrynicholle
Nicholle Ramsey :
i’m a preschool teacher and we take turns, but we don’t force share 🥴
2024-02-25 18:28:33
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diy_day2day
Caroline-DIY thru motherhood✨ :
Yes!! When my toddler takes something and the parent goes “it’s okay” I say oh no it’s not lol!
2024-02-23 14:10:14
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uithovenchels
Chels U :
And amen
2024-02-26 15:32:10
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squidwaaaard22
Squid :
Yes! The one who gives it up teaches people pleasing and the one who takes it teaches entitlement!
2024-02-23 14:15:27
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katgechele
Kat Gechele :
Oh goodness I needed the words for this. Thank you! 😅
2024-05-05 13:52:35
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doula_barb
doula_barb :
Expecting toddlers to share isn't even age appropriate 😂
2024-02-26 02:56:21
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lizardbautista
Lizard 🦎 :
Yup!!! I taught my girl to say “you can have your turn AFTER I’m done with mine.”
2024-02-27 23:38:54
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vlreasilon
Michaela Stone :
my son loves sharing and likes handing out toys/food and it's because I never forced him + he knows there is more/something else
2024-04-01 19:14:39
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wickedravenco
wickedravenco🇨🇦 :
omg thank u my family just does the u can share like um no shes using it ur kid can wait
2024-03-18 05:54:36
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schistosomiasis13
schistosomiasis13 :
THANK YOU! I work in a daycare, as the 2’s teacher, and I do not just give kids something somebody else is playing by with because they want. They have to wait. I don’t do timers almost ever either
2024-03-24 06:17:00
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theemrspeeps
MrsPeeps :
I was the 10,000th like ♥️♥️♥️
2024-02-25 23:34:35
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jennaledesma
jennaledesma :
YES. I always say “what can you do while you wait?”
2024-02-26 01:39:24
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