@fashionably.divorced: Trad wives are trending but the damage this lifestyle causes for women in their 40s and beyond is irreparable. #tradwife #financialindependence #financialabuse #marriageadvice #fyp
Giving up my career was the worst decision of my entire life. Alone now at 60, he left me, stole my retirement and my life is destroyed
2024-03-06 01:19:37
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LinnyLou :
My friend trad wife married 27 yrs and he wants a divorce. Last kid left for college. Chilling he waited until he wouldn’t have child support.
2024-03-01 01:27:38
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Connie Mitchell560 :
The only one who you can trust to take care if you is you. Trad life is too risky.
2024-02-27 13:09:55
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wardwideweb (Taylor's Version) :
Because financial stability relies on someone loving you.
2024-02-27 13:19:53
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Ruffian :
I am fortunate that I chose a career. None of us. believed that man will leave us 30 years later. All I can add is don't change your name
2024-02-27 11:01:31
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Mei Dean Francis :
Mine said my job was stressing me out too much, too, and I needed to make a choice. Then it was my friends. Then it was my depression...
2024-10-16 07:38:08
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🐝 Emily @Socialbuzzhive 🐝 :
“Don’t worry I’ll take care of you” is the most dangerous thing a woman can believe.
2024-03-04 04:27:45
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Amber :
Cmon. Director level here. Moving into SAHM... 40, happy. Secure- learn to play the game & you'll survive
2024-02-27 14:05:31
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⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝Divine :
School will not take care of my child. Developmentally disabled. I gave up on my career. Financially I feel trapped & ruined because of this
2024-09-27 21:05:00
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Amber Crystaldottir :
Even if your partner is devoted, they could die. If you don't have access to accounts, name on titles, and income--then what happens to your family?
2024-02-27 14:31:59
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Ling22 :
When my husband started to have that ignoring and annoyed face when I talk to him, I immediately applied for a job. We’re still together and I was told by my husband and my mom, I was too ambitious.
2024-03-23 10:34:14
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RAQ :
Yes take care of yourself because they will trade you in a minute with no thanks for all that you’ve done.
2024-02-27 14:54:19
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Daphne :
You’re exactly right. I’m 57 and been married 31 years. I’m very resentful at this point in my life.
2024-02-27 18:18:18
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username123451241234212 :
You should have left him after that conversation
2024-02-29 09:55:18
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Elle Kamihira :
The tides turn fast is right
2024-03-01 03:16:39
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Carmen :
My 80y/o mother told me then to never relay on a man for money. I got a career. I'm grateful for her wisdom.
2024-03-06 14:15:21
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Stefanie930 :
This
2024-03-15 13:21:08
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wendyvalentine146 :
What’s a trad wife?
2024-02-27 13:52:37
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davecjmaddox :
❤️❤️❤️
2024-03-11 03:03:34
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lavenderrose :
🎯💯
2024-03-11 00:52:19
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Ogiophonogio67 :
I feel like trad wives feel sorry for me . because they have nice lives without working ?
2024-12-07 18:26:19
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Ogiophonogio67 :
how do you feel of women like me that have worked my whole life ? do you think less of women that work when you can stay home ? single mom here
2024-12-07 18:25:37
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HD :
Narcissists prefer wives not work. They have more $ control/ur less likely to leave & U don’t meet coworkers who might point-out marriage probs
2024-02-27 14:10:01
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joyllano4 :
Funny..I was a SAHM for 23 yrs. After he left me 9 yrs ago he complained that I didn't work when the kids were younger. But never complained then😳
2024-02-29 05:54:51
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Melissa :
Such true words!! wow. You lose your voice,opinions,power,etc., being a full time SAHM/wife. I know all too well
2024-02-27 16:13:23
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GouldGirl66 :
I loved every minute of trad wife. Kept certain skills current with volunteer work. Back in workplace 17 years later.. love that too.
2024-02-28 22:20:44
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Mimi :
Very important as a woman to be able to support yourself if needed. You never know what the future holds!
2024-02-27 16:50:26
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ElaineVDP :
It’s not choosing a job over family , it’s choosing independence
2024-02-27 16:38:39
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Mrs Roofus :
Get your own bank account from the get-go and only put your name on it and his or your kid as TOD!
2024-02-27 15:22:43
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Toxic Annie :
Young women are glamorizing the “trad wife” culture. How sad that they are so naive.
2024-02-27 14:08:19
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The WTF* Lady :
Damn straight and say it louder for the women in the back 📢
2024-02-27 21:08:15
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anon :
I only know one woman in her 60s that trad wife life worked out for and she's genuinely happy.
2024-02-27 15:10:42
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GladysKravitz :
The bitterness comes at you hard when you stand up for yourself
2024-02-27 13:51:39
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Rose pacebp :
I was one for 27 years. I didn’t even realize how much I didn’t want it until I didn’t have it.
2024-02-27 13:50:13
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Itiswhatitis :
Make sure you have access to bank accounts, know where the money is.. if he doesn’t share.. that’s a RED FLAG!
2024-03-11 00:07:04
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Shareen Chick :
16 yrs of being one and now he left me, got big house, girlfriend, and a nice 6 figure job! So no thank you! lol!
2024-03-01 13:23:27
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Tammy Fisher Green :
I was told I wouldn't make enough and it would just push us into paying more taxes. I totally agree!
2024-02-27 14:03:42
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Cassidy :
I take this approach… basically there are almost no faithful men at this point. My daughter will be set up.
2024-03-11 00:47:09
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user533753586447 :
So glad I never wanted kids
2024-02-27 17:21:31
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Holdi-Locks :
Even the clean cut church men are that way, one little no over anything they want it is over he finds another woman ASAP.
2024-02-27 16:29:53
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Gio :
This is great advice! I’ve always mentored my daughter with this same mindset.
2024-02-27 15:39:48
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user470285893023 :
This is great advice
2024-02-27 13:37:22
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Julie Martin :
Was trad wife. I enjoyed being home with my kids. However husband got hurt and could not work. I had to supplement income and provide I aurance foe my kids. I wished I had worked even part time.
2024-03-10 23:24:39
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nbrody54 :
Wholeheartedly agree. Never be afraid to take care of yourself in case they decide to leave.
2024-03-01 06:36:48
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Brenda Hamre :
I have always taught my daughters to be able to make their own money! As my Mom taught me! Very grateful for that lesson
2024-03-01 00:28:57
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Lindsey :
My Mom was not a trad wife,she was miserable and stressed. I did the opposite and I do not regret putting my family 1st.
2024-02-27 17:27:48
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Ellie Conover :
Best advice my mother ever gave me. Always be able to take care of yourself because things can change quickly
2024-02-27 17:06:36
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pg5700 :
I am amazed on how many people get married and have no clue who they are marrying people the divorce rate is over 50% why people think that ain't them
2024-02-27 16:22:36
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Hughloo :
Your financial stability depends on someone loving you. This is good advice for these young trad wives.
2024-02-27 14:53:55
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TikTok user5555566612345 :
Single and happy
2024-02-27 14:51:52
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cmforster8 :
divorces are granted way easier than they were in the past, trad wife is not a secure position
2024-02-27 12:47:05
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Jules_2024 :
Teaching my daughter to NEVER do it!
2024-05-10 16:46:48
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Robin :
"What kind of person would I be if I chose my job over family?"
Answer: A man.
2024-03-11 12:46:45
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DianeThats me :
And God knows he won’t take care of you
2024-03-03 16:06:08
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Liz Hainley :
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’ve loved being a trad wife. Married 29 years (worked 10), but I know this happens to many.
2024-03-01 04:53:21
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