I want to know who they polled 🤦♀️absolutely love this!
2024-11-19 22:44:48
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stacy :
it's cheaper for the guest but just seems tacky
2024-02-29 22:44:49
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Jessica Giannini :
As a guest I would still give both 🤷♀️…pay meal and get them a gift
2024-03-01 02:01:02
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Ella :
Uh I like this why are people mad. Whoever is at your wedding is suppose to be family and people who love you so whatever you chose to do should be fine with them
2024-03-04 18:36:03
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HeatherTTT :
Etiquette says your gift should cover the cost of your seat, which is dinner/drinks/cake/appitizers.
2024-02-29 20:45:47
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loiscraddock703 :
Just do a pot luck supper. 🥴
2024-02-29 20:18:09
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Ria Squitieri :
That’s a real low class move.
2024-03-03 05:50:19
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Criquette Ariel :
Ok by me. We normally give 250-300
2024-02-29 21:56:01
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user9678568787480 :
$40 bucks and no gift?! A bargain!
2024-03-01 05:05:02
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BLH :
$40 per adult is cheap! we usually give 150 to 300 as a couple as a "gift" 80 bucks is a deal as a couple!
2024-02-29 20:14:46
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user1496294315549 :
Great idea. I always give $100 cash gift as it covers my food. $40 is a bargain.
2024-02-29 21:54:55
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Jesse Norwalt :
I would prob just push for cash as the gift instead of random toasters. Same outcome but a little less obvious and more classy. I’m all for cash over random gifts tho
2024-03-01 00:04:14
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KitDistinction :
Standard unwritten rule in NY/NJ middle class you cover your plate in a monetary gift
2024-02-29 22:27:00
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Melissa T :
But that’s basically what the “gift” you give goes to anyways. Usually you give money
2024-02-29 21:41:29
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.panda.jenn :
Why not just have the wedding with a reception and omit the food altogether?
2024-02-29 20:28:34
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⋆⁺₊⋆ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ :
Also it might be a situation where the bride and groom have everything they need. When my husband and I got married, we didn’t do a registry or ask for any gifts (or money). We had 2 sets of…
2024-03-01 05:18:50
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Blue Rose :
Why not do a potluck styled wedding? It’s actually quite common.
2024-02-29 22:19:06
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Gemma :
I'd rather pay. Less for me and helpful to the couple.
2024-03-03 23:11:15
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Angi :
That’s a gift for the guest!! I give cash for wedding gifts and that’s way less than what I give. Who’s mad about this???
2024-03-03 22:23:36
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Wiley_antics :
if its in lieu of gifts I think its ok like asking for a honeymoon fund instead of gifts and its not expensive actually less than a lot of people spend on wedding gifts
2024-03-17 15:23:06
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Denmark :
No
2024-03-01 21:28:12
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gobsmacked3468 :
Sounds like a good idea it’s less than what I’d spend on a gift!
2024-12-21 18:35:02
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Pete’s Comment :
I agree this is much cheaper than a gift but it is still weird. Not sure how to do it more diplomatically. ..
2024-03-01 16:07:24
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