I call it a frozen need. It’s a need that should have been filled in the past but wasn’t. But it cannot be met in the present.
2024-03-05 18:00:02
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carlyn :
I’m struggling with how to meet my gnawing need for connection, love and support on my own, I’m not expecting it to all be from one person but I crave solid friendships and relationships and
2024-03-05 15:22:22
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issa :
I really needed to hear this
2024-03-04 22:31:55
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StrawberryShortcake :
Oof yes the salvation fantasy. So much of what I’m searching for is driven by a need to provide me, my nervous system & inner parts, SAFETY & peace 🥹
2024-03-04 22:17:44
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Kirstie Stark :
Perfect doesn’t totally exist in this way, but it doesn’t mean we can’t have some everyday magic✨🥰
2024-03-05 03:10:36
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Breezy :
Thank you for this! The freedom that comes from acceptance & reality, imperfection & learning, is more fulfilling than the fantasy of "perfect."
2024-03-05 01:36:55
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age :
I think it's also like a survival mechanism. Like you need to have enough optimism to keep hunting or foraging in order to survive
2024-03-05 06:15:01
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Maiden Monster :
Going from a product oriented life to a process oriented life has been a helpful paradigm switch for me as well.
2024-03-05 12:38:52
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Alyssa :
Brown you’re always killing it. I feel like you’re in an expansive chapter of life. Thanks for letting us benefit from it ☺️
2024-03-07 16:52:32
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SageG1rl :
Off topic- but getting a lot done lately and I attribute this to you and your videos. Started watching maybe a month or 6 weeks ago.
2024-03-05 04:16:33
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Bb :
Holy moly.
2024-03-05 01:18:10
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Reece :
Mine is death and I’m over here waiting
2024-03-05 04:27:12
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sugarmagnolia 💙 :
💯 Also, reminds me of Jerry Maguire movie among many others “You complete me, Show me the money, You had me at hello.” Etc etc
2024-03-05 01:32:01
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Hello jelly bean :
I don't thinkbthat an individual alone can meet all their own needs? you do need other people/things
2024-03-09 16:10:45
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Village Herbalist :
Saviorism 💙
2024-03-05 20:09:17
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ifollowthefawns :
Thank you and now my brain is spinning.
2024-03-05 15:17:07
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Asdzaan Crystal :
This message is something I have finally learned at the age of 37. Only I can meet me and care for me. Thank you! ❤️
2024-03-05 18:55:22
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Lindsay 🇨🇦 :
Needed this.
2024-03-05 02:21:29
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forinformationalpurpose :
Genuine question, how does one "heal" these wounds without getting what they needed in the first place? I'm saying those deep rooted beliefs won't change until they're disproven somehow...??
2024-03-06 01:38:07
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lupo5478 :
I liked the book ‚Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships“.
2024-03-05 23:24:40
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🧸🤍 :
that freedom scares me more than it makes me feel better and i have no idea how to be okay with never feeling complete.
2024-03-05 21:03:21
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✦ Cosmic ✦ :
This was so good to hear today, thank you Brown 🙏
2024-03-05 16:59:01
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Sarah Oh465 :
Hits different 🙈 I kinda wish for external fulfillment 🫣
2024-03-05 15:09:17
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cephalo786 :
welcome to Buddhism
2024-03-05 13:30:45
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