Look the thing is I’m dealing myself with a lot of problems ( bpd,depression,chronic illness) I’m dealing with anxious attachment and that’s the whole opposite it’s venom for me..idk how it would work
2024-03-07 23:44:37
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TheUglyDuckling :
Seeing the comments on posts about avoidant attachment makes life seem so pointless. I’m trying really hard to work through these issues but everyone seems to hate us
2024-03-17 02:19:44
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Duchess Gummybuns :
As an anxious attachment working on becoming a better person, my whole family is avoidant & its been so hard to ever communicate issues or feelings to them. I lost contact with all of them cuz of it
2024-03-07 13:36:01
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Flykra :
Really sad seeing everyone say to just leave avoidant attachment. As if they aren't people with emotions who, as an avoidant attachment, knows relationships can be worked up on?
2024-03-07 07:33:59
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Mes :
and all we need was silence and comfort, words of affirmation, warmest hug, all ears, and being understood. that's how u handle the avoidant type of person.
2024-03-20 06:48:53
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Goldleaf :
It's hard to be a recovering avoidant. You try to communicate and ppl talk over you. You try to be vulnerable and ppl belittle you. You express needs and you're abandoned again. It hurts less to leave
2024-03-18 18:31:44
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Amelia7777 :
isn't that just someone who doesn't like you
2024-03-06 14:16:08
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Julia :
I noticed anxious people are the only ones who are motivated/expected to change their behavior.
2024-03-19 17:06:01
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jaggedlittlegil :
they should try communicating ❤️
2024-03-06 17:05:14
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GGZii :
and when you raise the point, they leave. You give them space? they have left. You give them space and they return? they cycle continues
2024-03-06 16:43:13
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𝓃𝒶𝓉𝒶𝓁𝒾𝑒 :
i’m an avoidant, but i try very hard to work through this for the people i love and care about. it can be very challenging
2024-03-08 04:05:20
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avocadopickles :
i really only do this when someone will barely give me the space i need and are constantly talking to me. like my individualism is important to me. i have a life besides talking to you.
2024-03-21 06:13:04
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narii :
this literally validates the overthinking, it basically means i’ve become too clingy and they don’t like me anymore 😭
2024-03-11 01:40:12
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Maggie McKay :
I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
2024-03-06 16:03:52
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Madi★(OPEN COMMISSIONS) :
The comments make me so sad :( You are capable of being loved, it can be challenging for both you and your partner but don’t let people/posts convince you you’re unloveable, that’s not at all true.
2024-03-08 13:56:40
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hehehe 🥝💜 :
ive tried my best to get him to communicate, gave him space, listened to him, tried to change for him but he still did all this. i dont think this is just avoidant attachment, he just didn't like me
2024-03-19 20:58:16
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xtinelimo :
Am an avoidant. All the above are true. Just give me space I find myself. I will be back pliz. Not personal
2024-03-26 03:03:29
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christer :
from "this is so me" to "so, this is me"
2024-03-19 17:28:31
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Pancake #BRINGVALKOBACK :
I'm a disorganized attachment style, who leans heavily into avoidant after starting anxious. It hurts to see that anxious are given all the grace while avoidants can't be given the same. (1)
2024-03-18 12:08:18
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Kenz ᖭི༏ᖫྀ ꩜ :
LEAVE ME ALONEEEEE THIS ACCOUNT KEEPS POPPIJG UPPP
2024-03-08 04:37:14
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fishy1807 :
what do I do to fix myself lol
2024-03-06 21:25:41
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elysiaberman :
Ok but to everyone in the comments section that’s their issue not yours. You aren’t doing anything wrong if someone starts treating you like this.
2024-03-07 13:26:34
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cbt :
this is him. and I'm anxious attachment. it was so hard and in the end didn't work
2024-03-16 01:17:12
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✟ 𝖔𝖑𝖎𝖛𝖎𝖆 ✟ :
genuine question; will an avoidant attachment ever love an anxious attachment? have they ever loved them? do they love them?
2024-04-04 03:30:12
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Rokudaime's Waifu :
im an avoidant, if i do this it means i simply dont like you. if i like u, i wont leave.
2024-03-08 17:11:07
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