i feel like ppl forget that phones once didn’t exist and it was normal to not see someone for ages…
2024-03-11 07:21:30
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Marsya :
Low maintenance friends are the best. You can reach out whenever and everything is cool even if it has been years. 😊
2024-03-10 00:00:19
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J :
explaining how object permanence applies to people when you have ADHD is so difficult sometimes
2024-03-11 06:50:41
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hagelfox :
I'm like I know I forgot you exist for 20 years but if you knock on my door literally no time has passed and I still remember how you take your tea.
2024-03-10 09:24:17
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👽WraithBait🪐 :
I lost my best friend because I’m a low maintenance communicator and she is high maintenance. And I am the villain in her story as to why we don’t talk. 😢
2024-03-10 21:46:45
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📸🍆 :
avoidant attachment? nah I got that object permanence and that applies to people unfortunately. out of sight out of mind, I literally just forget and I do have real issues with it.
2024-03-11 10:25:28
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Astarions Love Slave :
Everyone’s saying avoidant attachment and I’m just here like I literally get caught up in my own thing and forget about everything else 🥹
2024-03-11 15:53:20
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💀 :
If you don’t somewhat regularly communicate with me or hang out. You aren’t my friend.
2024-03-10 14:28:28
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Noxxarian :
I mean, i get it, but why is the low maintenance friend's angle more valuable? So the high maintenance friend MUST accept that? How about a compromise
2024-03-11 08:41:01
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circes :
I'm a low maintenance person who's been forced to try and be high maintenance by friends who demand I always make the effort because it's what they expect, it's hard bc they always get upset at me
2024-03-11 05:08:40
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lydiajsen :
I stopped initiating the convo/meetings and we havent talked in 2 years. Which hurts cause I still care for them but they dont seem to care for me.
2024-03-11 00:27:03
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21remedyy :
"in my heas we are friends" sounds like "it doesn't matter what your needs are, that's how i am so deal with it". ok in MY head i moved on
2024-03-11 06:16:16
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melalowee :
It’s not ideal to be like this as a girl…..in my experience. My friends always think I’m mad
2024-03-10 19:57:54
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Chantal Noordeloos :
I’m either a low maintenance friend or a non malicious love bomber. I have no in between 🤪
2024-03-10 09:47:37
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Mother of pets🐈⬛🐶🌻🍉 :
You need cactus friends and not roses friends. Cactus= low maintenance. Roses= high maintenance 🌵👍🏻🌹👎🏻
2024-03-10 06:17:46
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Nora :
I had a friend who passed away when I was in my low-maintenance friendship phase and I regret it immensely. That’s why I slowly started to be more in contact with my loved ones on a more regular basis
2024-03-10 11:37:46
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Rhys :
If you don’t know what’s going on with my entire life for the past 4 months, are we really friends?
2024-03-10 14:57:19
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user2048146887148 :
This guy probably don’t have close friends. Maybe for him, but definitely not for them. Unfortunately, a relationship/friendship needs regular communication. Not everyday, but at least once a month
2024-03-11 04:59:58
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Småland Cosplay :
True this, but if you regularly send something, and the person in question doesn’t respond in like over 3 months. Choices have to be made
2024-03-10 17:02:22
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TakaAza (Stoic) :
Found my people, I mean are we dating or something😂
2024-04-08 09:25:34
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Chanyeol'sBathTowel :
These type of people (yes, me too) are very loyal friends. They usually don't have many friends, so they are dedicated to you more. They won't leave you even if you don't reach out for a year.
2024-03-13 13:11:26
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Millennialial :
Out of sight out of mind. We can each be in each other’s sight and be best friends immediately though. Exactly.
2024-03-10 16:43:57
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g0dsend :
being able to accept this type of friendship means you understand that not everyone can be everything you want them to be. this is why its good to have different kinds of friends
2024-04-05 00:14:49
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Ken :
I have ADHD and am literally the complete opposite like couldn’t be further from this
2024-03-11 05:46:37
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