@missclairebenjamin: 🚨 Handling a clique👇 🧠 Managing a team that are very cliquey can be very challenging especially when new starters join and you can see they’re being excluded. ▶️ Not only can this impact the team performance it can also impact the happiness and well-being of the new starters. 🚫 When it’s something you’re really concerned about it can be tempting to approach the most influential person in the group it in a very directive “telling off” kind of way. I would recommend avoiding this approach as it will cause resistance and could worsen things. I would recommend doing the following instead: 1️⃣ Ask for the advice of the most influential person in the group. 2️⃣ Try to appeal to their kind side (the majority of people have one) and help them see the situation from another angle. 3️⃣ Reinforce that you’re asking for their help not placing undue responsibility onto them. 💬 What is your experience of work cliques? Share in the comments 🙂 📌 Please be mindful that the perspective offered in this video is generalised and won’t fit every situation so please follow your instincts about whether this applies to your situation. You’ve got this! #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #communicationskills #corporatelife #emotionalintelligence #managingpeople #communication #difficultconversations #managertips
I don’t think it’s a manager’s business who spends their lunch with whom.
2024-03-12 22:43:45
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Sophie :
my workplace is full of cliques, while i feel so alone, I would rather protect my own energy and mental health.
2024-03-12 19:33:05
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Alix Byrne :
Sometimes it’s the manager that creates the cliques
2024-03-12 21:18:53
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Mary ✨ :
i remember making such an effort to make friends but the people i worked with pretended i didn’t exist. they would blank me :( make plans in front of me w no invite. i would cry everyday going home
2024-03-12 21:57:38
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Claire 🌻 :
Nah these people need talking to the first way
2024-03-12 19:48:09
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Lara Wainwright :
This is probably my favourite video you’ve posted. I’ve always struggled to express my frustration with cliques and exclusion. It never ended well🥲
2024-03-15 11:05:56
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Rachel Burrowes :
Fab advice
2024-03-13 19:02:53
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Amal :
My workplace was like that and they blamed it on me
2024-03-13 07:52:25
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Suzanne Martin :
I’ve been accused of being in a clique i was told off for not inviting someone to my birthday party - I said are you going to pay for them as I have to pay per head
2024-03-12 23:37:51
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Claire | Work people tips :
Ps do you say clicky or cliquey? 😬🤔
2024-03-12 19:15:57
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mckenziandco :
I just recently found you on TikTok and I just want you to know that you are doing just great work! Everything you post is on point!
2024-03-30 01:01:09
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Becky :
Disagree, should be kind to everyone but you can go on lunch with whoever you want.
2024-03-27 19:50:17
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Ha1ley :
How do deal with when the mangers is part of the clique
2024-07-13 15:03:22
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Vivienne :
Colleagues are not your friends though. I’ve seen countless examples of ppl throwing ’friends’ under the bus
2024-03-13 09:27:01
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BeckyJ :
Imagine it’s your manager that is the ringleader of the clique 😭
2024-03-12 19:52:31
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Ruby ⭐️🐈⬛🕺🏻👯♀️ :
What about when the manager is the main actor in the clique?
2024-03-12 19:44:18
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User2356 :
Wish you were my manager, in my workplace there are ppl who don’t care and there is group who gossip about everyone. I feel alone but can’t waste my energy on them and manager really don’t care.
2024-03-12 19:43:56
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sophyska :
Managing when there’s cliques is so hard 😣
2024-03-14 00:21:02
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lera22xx :
Any advice on staff lying to your face and everyone about anything?
2024-03-12 20:15:59
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Bing bong :
Do you have a video on how to manage a toxic manager?
2024-04-06 23:40:05
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Breaking Wave :
Don't give the clique any power,ignore the childishness and build working relationships with people you respect
2024-03-13 21:09:17
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Oh no…. Anyway 🇦🇺🦘🐨 🏳️🌈 :
Had this happen at my last job - i left and they all turned on each other….
2024-03-23 13:56:46
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caz :
I know that one but I don't care because at the end of the day
it's their problem not mine
2024-03-31 08:36:45
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Ella :
My manager doesn’t come in much and when she does she makes a point of isolating herself but no one says anything to her. We have invited her to lunches etc
2024-03-14 07:01:52
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