first date is a vibe check, second date is checking if you can tolerate a more intimate dose of the person, third date is where you start looking at the future
2024-03-13 02:08:13
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greenechasen7 :
Hmm maybe people are confusing good conversation w chemistry bc most people are too shy or awkward to talk comfortably. So a first date w a great conversation sets off bells and whistles in their head
2024-03-13 04:38:16
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Eziel :
that's literally what it's for. everyone forgot
2024-12-14 17:14:28
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Kazoo Dude :
is it bad I just want like an interview? like let's just list off what we want like a business deal fr
2024-03-13 04:05:31
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DKNard :
As someone with 0 dating experience, it sounds like they view willingness to go on a first date as confirmation of a relationship, and thus view more dates as a given? Alsoonlyconsideringtheirfeelings
2024-03-13 01:51:11
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Nelly :
I regret to inform you if you continue to make the conversation flow In Spite of obvious things you don't vibe with they will assume things went perfect when they didn't and think your interested
2024-03-13 03:21:34
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Leslie :
I don’t even decide if I’m really into someone romantically until like the third date. After the first date? Oh my goodness. 😭
2024-03-13 09:16:07
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Frost :
A lot of the first time dates are awkward and slow convos unless the other is interested and make the effort. So you being a phenomenal talker might confuse em. It’s hard out there in general really
2024-03-13 02:12:50
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⭐️ :
he asked me if I wanted kids on the first date idek anymore
2024-03-13 06:02:01
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b🍒🫐🍓 :
Wanting to become official after the first date is crazy 😭
2024-03-13 13:46:18
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don't not live :
are you attentive? make eye contact? laugh at their jokes? engage in what they're interested in? they think you're head over heels romantically and not just being treated like a person
2024-03-13 06:23:06
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Aazgaroth :
lots of dudes approach first dates with the mindset of "i have a goal to get a girlfriend. if the date goes well then obviously i completed my goal and won" and the train of thought ends there
2024-03-13 08:05:08
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✨Jvcob✨ :
They don’t look beyond their own experience. They had a good date, therefore they deserve to have you. That’s their mindset, it’s a huge red flag
2024-03-13 08:26:28
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David :
i always assumed that's what first dates were meant for
2024-03-13 01:45:50
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Richard Alcott947 :
for a lot of people these days, that was probably the longest, deepest conversation they had ever had.
2024-03-13 05:34:51
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Neon :
Valid take tbh
2024-03-13 01:44:37
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Aria :
I said “yeah I play Roblox anime games” am I cooked 😭😭😭
2024-03-13 02:02:04
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Ronnie :
Most dudes don't handle rejection well, especially when they perceived a mostly positive date. Doing everything "right" and still "losing" is a hard concept to grasp for anyone under 30.
2024-03-13 04:28:33
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José :
i would say, try pulling back on the time spent conversing in the first date. It’s hard for people with Adhd because you’re so in the moment.
2024-03-13 04:54:27
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turtle :
Well when they say things that are bad to you speak up to them about it. If they don’t know you didn’t like something they assume everything was all good. So naturally they go sweet we clicked.
2024-03-13 06:15:03
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