@stellascholaja: Intimacy is so important for women and it’s so important to talk about! #dating #datingfears #intimacy #fearofintimacy #bevulnerable #bodypositivity #Relationship #relationships #womenshealth #femalebiology
By myself- 30 seconds to 3 minutes... Don't get me wrong, my husband really gets it done, but no one before him cared enough.
2025-11-25 17:24:02
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Jessi :
Its always harder with a partner for me but it feels better with my partner
2024-03-14 11:35:44
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Angie Sanchez :
I struggled with every partner until I met my husband and let me tell you…ladies if he wanted to MASTER THAT SHIT he would and I’m telling you from personal experience. Man’s better at it than me at this point lmfao Ty for coming to my Ted talk.
2026-01-11 18:43:18
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HappySadHungry :
gimme 3 minutes😂
2025-11-07 11:40:21
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user1327308323857 :
I will never ever do that thing. because from what i know on myself all that feels good is outside. I don't think i have a special place yk in 😭
2024-04-05 12:10:03
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「 кคгєภ 」 :
I've always thought I was part of the ace spectrum since I don't get in the mood nor feel anything when I'm with anyone else, it's just like nothing works for me
2024-03-14 14:22:16
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Alyssa (pepa’s bae) :
It’s only been by myself but I have worked it down to 30 seconds start to finish.
2025-11-25 16:45:46
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Julia Pająk :
you look like lukes daughter from gilmor girls, like are u her?
2024-03-14 19:35:46
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Taylee Ehlert :
finally someone gets it
2025-11-15 14:59:00
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Choco :
Nah it really easy
2025-11-03 15:01:41
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2025-11-07 07:20:25
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Iida <3 :
When only times i got there i was with a other girl 😔
2024-03-14 23:31:52
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Malachi2r :
2025-11-08 03:12:45
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Julian D :
No tutorial ?
2025-11-25 21:27:52
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wyślijciepomocchińczykom :
FR I THOUGHT ITS HARD OR I WONT BE ABLE but im doing it myself when i want😭😭😭
2024-03-14 20:00:15
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‧꒰ა 𝒶𝓁𝓁𝓎 ໒꒱‧ :
it takes me 2-3 hrs
2025-12-21 02:45:44
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ayden :
i’ve never understood what makes it difficult. you can literally feel it happen. and it’s literally right there guys. if you just go to the middle, then go straight up. it’s like right there. but apparently that’s too much
2026-01-15 06:21:33
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Elliott Alderson :
It's a mental thing too though. We can't get into your head at all times. That's why hookups aren't great, we can't read random hookups well at all.
2026-01-31 09:14:29
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🐺Cielito_Lindo🌕❤️🩹 :
It took 10 yrs of marriage
2025-11-25 15:26:08
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🔥💫──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝──💫🔥 :
IT IS... I be by myself and still struggle😭💀
2025-12-17 06:10:10
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Belle Eden Nation :
FANTASTIC….💪🙏💜👑good girl for figuring it out. Wish I was your mom I would have told you !!!💜
2024-03-18 10:52:53
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MILIIIII✌️ :
Nah im just better by myself 😝 2 minutes and repeated
2025-11-26 01:56:49
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