😐he never has a “problem” until i have a problem then the roles are reversed
2024-03-15 02:18:46
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Arrrrr_Ennnn :
The second he said it… I was like 😒
2024-03-14 13:32:06
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Mahwish Syed Designs :
I called it “emotional whiplash.” I ended up being the curious, validating one. Long after did I realize that my feelings were never truly heard.💯
2024-03-14 13:03:12
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shereadsfiction📚♡♪ :
what I heard him say was: I felt ignored, so I disrespected you and I'm not sorry for it
2024-03-15 09:42:39
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swish :
Dude HIS fyp not mine!!!
2024-03-27 14:53:25
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Blank :
Every day I learn a new wrong thing about my last relationship
2024-03-14 13:36:45
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Kim Bogart :
So… should he validate her feelings then bring up his? What’s the ‘right’ thing to do to get out of this cycle?
2024-03-14 13:34:20
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sakurariaa :
Being the constant validator makes a lonely relationship. Especially if you can’t come to them about how you feel because of this occurrence.
2024-03-16 13:12:56
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Scottd843 :
ignoring isn't a feeling, it's an action. what action led to her feeling? maybe it's not real just in her head.
2024-03-14 13:07:47
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FluffyRedDog76 :
this was SO validating. that relationship is long gone but this was such a consistent dynamic. this is healing to watch. thank you!
2024-03-14 13:47:18
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Eve Sarris :
How do I send this to my partner…. Without sending this to my partner
2024-03-14 14:17:46
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Resistant insomnia :
Told my partner i was bummed he never called me beautiful anymore. He started to cry about how I once didn't believe his compliment and i just ended up apologizing and validating him 🤣 never got a
2024-03-14 13:51:51
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Ivanna Briñez :
pero q le aparezca a el
2024-03-15 03:53:25
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★ anna ☆ :
Se lo enviaría si no estuviésemos 0 contact lol
2024-03-14 14:07:08
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Lorelai✌🏻 :
5 years in. I'm losing patience. It's hard to care anymore about his feelings because it feels like he's never validated mine
2024-03-14 17:28:54
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aliann1968 :
He only brings up his feelings when I want to talk about mine. He constantly turns it around and back on me. I don't even talk about my feelings anymore. No point in it.
2024-03-25 22:24:06
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Alice Windsor :
my mom and step-dad had a similar conversation but when my step-dad tried to say that he felt ignored my mom was just like "I brought up my hurt feelings first I started this conversation so
2024-03-15 09:16:43
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Amy 🌻 :
Me and ex my used to have this conversation all the time. He was wildly insecure and could never fully communicate his feelings. Only his feelings were valid.
2024-03-14 14:57:51
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Alex :
Alguien mándaselo por mi
2024-03-14 23:28:51
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Ash8nt1 :
This is why I don’t talk cuz everyone wanna argue😔😭
2024-03-14 16:22:11
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Steffy B :
Immediately thinking of Jimmy and Chelsea’s dynamic from Love is Blind. He was the validater and she always interrupts his feelings to talk about hers.
2024-03-17 20:59:14
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BrittanyDaine :
If I were her, I would have said something like, "You didn't tell me that at the time and I can't read minds, so we can talk about that later but right now we're talking about how you made me feel"
2024-03-14 15:34:46
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jtfsuperman23 :
In this typical scenario, the woman is using a Type of validation as manipulation. The reality is. She knows she was ignoring him. The question then becomes why..
2024-03-28 05:12:53
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Maria Jose 🍉 :
I always point that out when it happens and some people get really upset, but its like "why are you waiting for me to say something is wrong to say something?" it feels like a weird competition
2024-03-15 00:21:14
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jypsyjamie :
Told my partner once “if you feel that way you need to find a time to bring it up, but you don’t get to bring it up in retaliation to MY issue”
2024-04-05 08:34:05
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