Nicole in Charlotte
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Friday 15 March 2024 22:44:13 GMT
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itsyaboichrisg :
As a single guy I’d feel weird just being like “yeah I want kids” considering how little I do to make one. I know I want a committed, loving relationship and then decide on kids with them
2024-03-16 00:50:42
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rory :
You are right. Sounds like the guy needs to figure out his values and non negotiables before going on dates.
2024-03-16 04:32:49
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Chloe :
That is exactly how I feel also!!!!!
2024-04-04 17:14:10
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chillarch95 :
Good point. Cute turtleneck.
2024-03-15 22:53:21
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Mike :
so he would rather be a dad first then possibly having to commit to a relationship meaning marriage and then possibly thinking about kids.. sounds like he has his priorities messed up.
2024-03-15 22:51:52
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Robert Salerno920 :
Yeah not a red flag he was trying to impress you but saying this ! He’s mature and looking for long term no biggie
2024-03-16 00:54:07
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Matthew Sokolowski :
“Looking for someone to procreate with”…. No shit… tf you think intentional dating is? Is this real?
2024-03-16 04:08:32
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woksofveggies :
same I get the ick immediately when they mention their main goal is to be a father
2024-03-29 04:14:07
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Melissa Brotzman :
But definitely a little bit of a red flag if they know they want to be dad but they don’t know what they would want in a future spouse
2024-03-16 02:20:43
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sdxfhbbbff224466 :
Can’t find what you’re looking for until you know what that is. Run. Your feelings are valid
2024-03-16 01:04:58
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Nj :
No that’s strange. to not know what you want in a relationship but want to be a dad?
2024-03-15 22:50:57
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Ryan Bass :
Sounds like someone who just wants to have the kid on weekends 😅
2024-03-15 23:27:39
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Katy Harrison :
No that’s weird, I would consider this a red flag
2024-03-15 23:15:41
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wanderer_but_not_lost :
Sounds like he’s using that to pull a woman in. In an ideal situation you should know what you want before kids
2024-03-16 00:27:25
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4timeamama :
Maybe he thought- if I tell her I’m interested in having kids she’ll fall head over heels in love instantly 🥴 that is so strange though!!
2024-03-16 02:53:18
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Tysha Marie 🆘🆓🇺🇸🇻🇮🩸🩸 :
I think he’s looking for a good dna and making someone a single mom.
2024-03-15 22:53:05
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Charlie Jenkins :
Maybe a better delivery would be I am looking for a woman who would the mother to my child/children that they deserve. 🤷🏻♂️
2024-03-16 00:23:19
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Jordan B. :
Yes. You are correct. I know from experience. One’s marriage needs to be more thought out. What are you to each other (not just a mom & dad).
2024-03-15 23:00:14
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Cyak :
I also think there’s far too much emphasis on having a kid right away… women get boxed into checking off all these boxes and it’s not remotely fair to them.
2024-03-15 23:55:54
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Hillary :
Ewwww…I have nothing else to say just ewww
2024-03-15 23:08:08
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0lilahoney0 :
Many men want kids, but many men don’t want to RAISE kids.
2024-03-18 00:54:25
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Eric TSDS :
As a man dating in his 30’s in Charlotte, this is a pink flag. I have had women without kids express the same statement. Makes me feel trapped and a donor at that point.
2024-03-15 23:42:00
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tarasullivanfit :
It seems most men wants kids, personally I don’t believe I do. I don’t think most men think about the reality of what it means to be a dad (cont)
2024-03-15 23:33:47
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sillyscientist :
A bit unrelated but my question is why Do we think just because they say they look for a relationship then we won’t get hurt and they actually mean it ?
2024-03-17 18:01:09
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Lauren :
Don’t go out with him again
2024-03-17 03:37:48
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Ray_XIV :
no, that's a VALID feeling. that dude is looking at women like birthing sacs and not a whole person
2024-03-16 16:07:47
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oldguyonthehill :
That’s a weird thing for a man to say on a first date
2024-03-16 02:32:28
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Meg Smith :
Also, I’m gonna assume here that the guy is roughly 30 as well, give or take a few years. How are you so sure you want to be a whole ass parent, but you still don’t (1/2)
2024-03-18 12:36:41
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jena :
men want kids for their “legacy” but you know women will have to do everything AFTER laying their body, mind, & emotional well-being on the line.
2024-03-17 19:08:39
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Maria :
He was trying to play you. Guys say this because they think it’s what we want to hear.
2024-03-16 15:59:00
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D :
I heard the same from MANY men. They plan to being father but they definitely don't plan that staying loyal to one woman for many years. They don't want wife, They want surrogate mom and a maid.
2024-03-16 06:53:18
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c._.kayy :
they’re just gonna tell you whatever they think you want to hear. try instead “just be yourself, you’ll know if i like you”
2024-03-16 06:09:52
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Valerie ✌️ :
hella red flag. not a fan of being seen as a baby factory.
2024-03-16 04:41:38
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Duncan Spirmshutr :
Turtleneck and glasses, I would marry you without even knowing your personality
2024-03-16 04:00:01
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JC :
He’s saying that and hoping a woman is desperate enough to put up with him because they want to be a mother so bad
2024-03-16 03:30:49
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user7327730266894 :
To be honest on a first date, I’m not sure I want to spill the beans of exactly what I’m looking for. This allows for manipulation on your part. So I don’t want the woman to know what I’m looking fo
2024-03-16 03:09:01
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resist_cheeto :
I would suggest he hire a surrogate to carry his baby
2024-03-16 02:58:11
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Members only :
Is that his and her beds behind you? If so there’s no chance he will father your child 😁
2024-03-16 00:20:57
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314159 :
great question to be asking but always remember that men lie
2024-03-26 22:09:41
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Tyler :
I asked a girl I was talking to what is important to her in a relationship and in a partner and she said she’s never thought about it. Do people actually not think about values or anything else?
2024-03-22 19:34:22
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Olivia Sullo :
I was recently asked if I wanted kids BEFORE the first date over the phone. I’m child free and keep getting asked early on, I thought it was just me. So relieved it’s not!
2024-03-22 01:00:35
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Christine Leggup :
a lot of men are told that women are baby crazy. he thought he was waving a green flag
2024-03-20 14:21:16
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michael17 :
I'm the type who doesn't want a host of direct "sorting questions" on the 1st date, data gathering. I'd rather have these q's arise on 3rd / 4th dat
2024-03-19 21:06:44
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Isla 💋🇫🇮 :
Having kids is great when you’re the dad
2024-03-19 15:19:44
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HarryTorres :
Somebody needs to educate these young men how much work, how expensive, and how time consuming being a parent is. Most young guys have no clue.
2024-03-18 15:15:17
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Donna Rose 📸🫧 :
Im asking that question before the first date im not setting up a date unless i know we are looking for the same thing
2024-03-18 04:27:09
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Khalila :
he is not looking to raise a child just to be a dad. Run!
2024-03-18 01:31:36
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Mother Atwood :
They have run through their promiscuous years. They think they are at the age where they should settle or want to.
2024-03-17 20:29:15
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Rea Marie :
Besides the point but can I ask where your sweater is from? I love it! 💖
2024-03-17 19:46:09
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user5738990972882 :
Overthinker= undatable
2024-03-17 19:29:14
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