@sflyermd: #stitch with @HeyThereParenthood You cannot use your past trauma and Black Maternal Mortality stats to justify assaulting a nurse who was attending to you, not neglecting you and likely was lessening your chances of a poor outcome as a Black Mother. #medicine #medicineexplained #fyp #doctor #doctorsoftiktok #medtok #nursetok #nurse #nursesoftiktok #healthcareworker #hospital #patient #illness #laboranddelivery #babies #pregnancy #labor #pain #mom #anesthesia #anesthesiologist #crna #caa #np #pa #midwife #obgyn #medicalstudent #medicalachool #obgyne #BlackTikTok #blackmother @ShesHavingABaby Advocate/Mom @Dr. Fran (DO, FACOG) @Julie Fuller @Jen Hamilton
In a CNA. I’ve been punched and slapped by patients who are “in pain” even though I warned them it was gonna hurt beforehand. Thank you for saying this, it destroys morale
2024-03-18 15:48:40
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Guaddy 𓉸ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི :
I had “please ask before doing any procedure or touching “ on my birth plan BUT it was due to CSA trauma some nurses didn’t ask
2024-03-18 05:15:27
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Bumble Bree 🐝 :
When I found out it was to place a heart monitor I was shook. Like yes, please MONITOR ITS HEART
2024-03-18 04:53:45
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Kawaii Kari :
I just had a baby and my hospital says to call it a birth preference not a plan! Plans often dont go as you want
2024-03-18 01:53:15
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Jordan :
I was a 10/10 on the pain scale during my labor and still said please and thank you and never once yelled at got angry at any of the staff.
2024-03-18 15:27:44
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Van Val :
My birth plan was to just have a healthy baby. Emergency C-section happened with my 1st and now my 2nd is going to be a c-section 🥰
2024-03-18 00:49:21
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Momo :
Excellent response
2024-03-17 21:49:46
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Shade 🦋 :
you said this perfectly 🙌🏾
2024-03-18 00:11:28
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lana_lorde :
So well said! Wow
2024-03-18 00:32:30
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Sara L :
Ok now I am feeling really bad for squeezing my nurse’s arm when she was talking me through pushing 🥺 I forgot about it until now.
2024-03-18 14:19:58
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SenorPe$O$ :
You give more and more reasons why I respect you as not only a healthcare professional but an awesome human being. ❤️
2024-03-18 02:18:35
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Michelle Garcia :
Was this in a hospital setting? A birth center? Was the midwife a CNM, not a lay midwife? She could have written orders to check heart tones q whatever. Sounds like there was a breakdown in MANY areas
2024-03-17 22:25:47
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Alicia Breath Johnson :
Amen, when I was in labor everything was good until it wasn’t. My daughter’s heartbeat dropped and it was all hands on deck. I was quickly moved to the OR for an emergency c-section. I’m thankful that
2024-03-18 01:24:15
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KA_T :
Well said!! I was thinking the same thing, if something did go wrong it would be our fault and they wound file suit quicker than you can say law suit
2024-03-18 02:55:25
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Gina Goldwire :
Well said Ty 👏🏾👏🏾
2024-03-17 22:09:12
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rebekaharzadon :
Very well said and professional
2024-03-18 06:13:49
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feral_bri :
I often say “I can’t help you if you won’t tell me what’s wrong” and “saying you’re in pain doesn’t make you weak”
2024-03-19 11:40:57
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Esté Ginelle :
Well said!!!!!
2024-03-17 22:30:06
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Lauren_and_Anabelle :
I had not heard about this until just now and went down the rabbit hole. I am not a healthcare worker and so I definitely don’t know (1)
2024-03-18 02:21:44
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nicolejenkins1985 :
My birth plans after my first was get the good meds then have both a safe baby and safe mother if that means I need every wire on the floor on us
2024-03-18 01:12:23
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cheetahleah0102 :
👏🏾👏🏾 well said sis!
2024-03-18 01:04:29
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wastintime4me :
this was explained so well🥰
2024-03-18 10:45:06
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A :
Preach!!
2024-03-18 02:01:51
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Mandy :
When I was only 32 weeks pregnant nurses and the doctor didn’t believe me that I had the worst contractions ever they literally told me I should “man up” and stop complaining. Even tho I was treated +
2024-03-18 11:10:09
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ebbie 🤍 :
This why in my birthplan I just told them to leave me be until Im ready to push. I dont want to be bothered. And no I didnt have a choice in birthing in a hospital. I wanted a home birth.
2024-03-18 02:49:05
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