@drbeckyatgoodinside: Parenting truth: Our kids’ feelings need support, not solutions. Try this: Next time your child is having a hard time, say, "I hear you", "That stinks" or "I'm so glad you’re sharing that with me" instead of allowing your fixing / advice / solution voice to take over. I think you’ll be amazed by what happens next.

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merrittolson0
Merritt | Luxury Hotel Expert :
I ask them “do you want to be helped, hugged or heard?”
2024-03-19 01:42:34
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katiesaintcloud
katiesaintcloud :
Also applicable to husbands. Don’t need your solution, just support. 😆
2024-03-19 01:31:56
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cocomorante
Coco Morante | Instant Kitchen :
We all want to be validated.
2024-03-18 17:51:21
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chai_chihuahua
migraine head :
Seems this same advice applies to relationships for all humans, at every age 💞 we all just want to be supported
2024-03-18 16:54:52
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shannonchavarria7
shannonchavarria7 :
This is so beautifully true ✨
2024-03-22 19:56:46
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ashley22793
Ashley12345678 :
LOVE THIS!
2024-03-19 13:00:07
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beavis.butthead5
Beavis Butthead :
well said. awesome.
2024-04-16 20:41:45
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amsevin
🅓𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕔 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕠𝕤💕 :
Great advice!!
2024-04-17 03:00:02
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totally not a bot 🍉 :
love this, thx for sharing
2024-03-20 19:45:25
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e_hubbard
Elizabeth Hubbard :
Thank you for what you do!
2024-06-03 23:37:17
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ellevic5
ellevic :
Thank you
2024-04-16 23:46:56
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sarahburke58
Sarah Burke :
“It’s not what you do for your children, it’s what you teach them to do for yourself”
2024-04-13 20:57:19
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laurastradingjourney
Laura | Day Trading for Moms :
What great advice! As a parent it's so easy to just want to fix the problem for them rather than acknowledging that they are struggling but letting them figure it out on their own.
2025-03-28 03:48:07
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mayagoburdhun
luffy :
good advice i agree 👍
2024-06-10 15:10:22
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daniellelemire
daniellelemire :
Love this
2024-04-16 20:16:23
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oraliarsan
user3051795222578 :
Thanks for the advice
2024-04-17 05:46:38
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coachamalali
Amal :
Thank you
2024-03-21 07:53:00
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3mmmg0
3mmmg0 :
This is true even for couples !
2025-03-05 18:43:32
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amelia_somebody
Amelia Somebody :
Good. Cuz I’m bad at solutions. But support I can do 😝
2024-03-22 20:04:20
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carriehend
Carrie Henderson :
Hmmmm well I def have not been doing ur suggestions 😬😬 🧐🧐 let me reassess for a sec!
2024-04-19 00:46:26
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pris.salr
Penny Lane :
I’m 36 and I want the solutions 😂😂
2024-03-20 16:45:48
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mwaitken
Morgan :
This made me cry, I wish I had this growing up
2024-03-24 22:58:24
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lolaaznaur
LolaAznaur :
This is only partially true- there are situations when it’s the parents job to help the child with the next step if they are stuck and discouraged
2024-04-16 19:59:17
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kaylieruthwalker
Kaylie Walker :
Still true at 27 🙋🏼‍♀️
2024-03-23 02:55:41
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stephaniediane25
Stephanie Diane :
Great advice!! I think I am guilty of solving my kids’ problems 😬
2024-03-19 21:02:02
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