Rachael-The Considerate Momma
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Monday 18 March 2024 18:39:29 GMT
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KittenSnuggler :
I wonder if this is why I can't remember much of my childhood. a lot of dissociation
2024-03-18 22:10:27
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Mellybelly1313 :
I did this as a child. I would completely just “space out” and say “okay” even though I was crying inside reminding myself that “this won’t matter when I’m grown up”
2024-03-18 18:55:04
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Nayeli C :
I think I spent most of childhood in this state. I was so obedient but inwardly all I felt was rage
2024-03-19 01:30:13
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lieratano :
Fun fact, that’s how adults work too!!
2024-03-20 09:09:29
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✨🍒 :
I remember as a kid when I’d get cornered and screamed at. All I remember is disassociating and maladaptive daydreaming after because I was so ashamed. Don’t even remember why I was in trouble… ever
2024-03-19 00:45:49
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D :
and that’s how I learned to fawn to keep myself safe
2024-03-19 01:26:36
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vanessasellingoc :
Idk but asian parents slap us 😩. We grew up so fine
2024-03-20 04:34:13
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Somethingmoreanonymous :
My mom would always complain about me just saying “okay” when her and my dad were scolding me and I’d always think what does she want me to do instead, argue?
2024-03-18 23:30:35
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imanijoseyauthor :
They're in the freeze state.
2024-03-18 18:58:42
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Ven :
How do we turn it off? I’m 38…
2024-03-18 22:33:21
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Kayla Not Kyla :
Well….. I asked several times calmly. Got to their level… many chances. They don’t listen
2024-03-20 18:08:14
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Amara :
Well that explains why I have no retaining memory...
2024-03-19 01:02:41
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Ash The Weird :
This is the main reason I have a disassociative disorder now.
2024-03-18 19:18:12
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mommy n mia :
Same with “sleep training”. They aren’t “trained” to “self-soothe” they just stop crying because you won’t come help them, they’re still upset and stressed.
2024-03-20 20:04:11
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Roxas :
That was me most of my life… so much I now have to learn because I disconnected
2024-03-18 18:50:02
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WiFi Income 📲💰💸 :
I do this at nearly 30.... I thought it was me just accepting what I didn't want to do
2024-03-18 22:29:08
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LaceyFern :
I know my daughter is in this state because she says “ok mother” instead of Mom or mommy- and I i’m
2024-03-18 19:59:14
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Lena :
Sadly the only reason I knew was from experience as a child from my mother doing this to me
2024-03-18 18:59:57
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ChasingHalos22 :
Yep this was my childhood
2024-03-19 11:07:26
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Rose Francois :
No wonder why I feel like something is off when I yell at my kid. Now I feel horrible 😐
2024-03-21 03:55:11
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Sidney Kirsch :
I feel so bad now 😔
2024-03-20 03:25:49
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aniindigo :
Yes. I was that child.
2024-03-19 04:25:24
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symaccidentally :
My 5yo daughter is at the “not listening” phase. Husband likes to treaten her but i really don’t like it. How to tackle this problem? I really need some advise
2024-03-18 20:03:20
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Claudia :
And then we grow up to be pleasers and feel our throat almost swell up because you want to stick up for yourself because you’re an adult, but can’t.
2024-03-21 19:20:27
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Mia Rose :
i mean you couldnt tell via their physical appearance?? a stressed child is rather easy to spot
2024-03-19 01:47:49
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