Whitney Goodman, LMFT
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Tuesday 19 March 2024 11:55:42 GMT
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Jakipedia :
This! “I was a child; you were a grown woman wilding out during my formative years!” We are not the same.
2024-03-19 15:03:21
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Bee 🍉 :
This is the same energy as the parents who tell their kids “I hope you have a kid that’s just like you” like that’s the worst thing they can wish on them
2024-03-19 21:24:41
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None-ya :
Some people had kids expecting them to act like adults from birth yet then treating them like toddlers even when they are 40 years old 😳
2024-03-19 12:24:16
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☆ :
"you gave me so much trouble as a baby you were ALWAYS hungry I never got a break." girl.
2024-03-19 18:51:46
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Steph 🍉 :
My mom still brings up things I "ruined" as a child. I decorated her things which I realize was annoying but again I WAS A CHILD.
2024-03-19 14:52:32
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Mack Mack 🌈❤️🔱🖤 :
Not exactly related but my mom will bring up things I didn’t do as a child that I do as an adult. “You never did the dishes when you lived with me.” Yeah I was 12!
2024-03-19 15:32:55
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Jess :
thank you! my mom called me a "difficult child" my entire life. but even more so if I brought up her abuse towards me.
2024-03-19 17:04:06
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Lisa🇨🇦 :
OMG!!! I had a child with extreme adhd who made me step up and find things that worked. That child owes me nothing!!! It made me a better parent.
2024-03-19 15:18:44
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justglizziemcguire :
the amount of times I've corrected my mom when talking about the past, "I was a CHILD, you were an adult responsible for dealing with situations." that's it that's all
2024-03-19 15:45:32
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Faith :
Everyone needs to take a child psych/developmental psych class in high school. Most parents don’t have a clue what is developmentally appropriate
2024-03-26 01:34:16
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ray :
learning to be an “easier child” meant sublimating my needs so hard that as an adult i’m trying to learn how to identify and fulfill my basic needs
2024-04-07 21:39:56
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Don’t Mind Me :
My parents never put in the effort to help me. They just didn’t have the time and energy to deal with me. I always wonder why they had kids. Like, why???
2024-03-22 17:48:12
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Jules :
omg thank you for this language. when i was a child my mom expected me to have the same emotional intelligence as an adult
2024-03-19 17:53:16
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E M I L Y 🧿✨ :
Whenever my parents bring up something my childhood I'm like yeah I was 11. You were 39. AND????
2024-05-26 23:42:48
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The name’s ICE :
Scream this louder for the people in the back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2024-03-20 00:17:56
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Ashley :
Exactly this!!!!! Kids are learning how to navigate the world. We are here to guide them. They owe us NOTHING.
2024-03-19 18:34:12
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Carrie🇵🇸 :
I wish I had learned this sooner. My oldest deserved better from me. We are doing so good now, but there is so many things I should of done better. We are healing, & I am becoming the mom they deserve
2024-03-21 16:41:35
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mars <3 :
YOOOOOO this is crazy no one's ever said this to me
2024-03-26 01:32:58
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Brooke Benedetti :
Oh my god! I really needed to hear this!
2024-03-19 20:08:20
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No one :
My mom is still so angry with me (28) because I had extreme OCD and I had outbursts because of the anxiety that came with it.
2024-03-19 13:08:00
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That Mommy Over There :
OH MY GOD, my mom just brought up something I did as a 13 year old that hurt her feelings as though it happened yesterday.
2024-03-22 00:08:36
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MJ 🇮🇹 🧁 :
Thank you from all of us who’s parents have wondered where their apology is for how we were as teens or kids 🥺
2024-03-19 14:17:43
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kylabreland :
Also, even if what you did isn’t typically “developmental appropriate”, you still don’t need to apologize. You were doing your best! And your parents should have taken that into consideration
2024-03-22 06:15:18
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Pear 🍐Bun🐰 :
I heard someone say that you grew into an adult but your parents were adults your whole life. They had time to learn and change
2024-03-22 01:36:16
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Lynn :
I’m 50 and just apologized to my parents for being a “bad kid” over the holidays. Now I’m “easier to be around” I was told 😳 Like what?!
2024-03-19 12:16:26
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