I found a tiny loophole, I say “let’s go get dads opinion on that so he feels included” and when my husband hears me say that he knows I’m needing his help lol
2024-03-20 13:38:59
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Saria :
I have to ask him to jump in and help. When I don’t think I should have asked.
2024-03-20 16:14:31
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unapologetically_untamed :
I’m the default parent, working full time and managing everything while my husband does whatever he wants, works as long as he wants etc. 1000s of talks with him that he ignores. Ready to leave
2024-08-08 22:29:28
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lilsewsew :
default mom, full time business owner/worker and homeschool teacher to just one kid.... I'm exhausted.
2024-03-20 12:19:42
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mtn2beachman :
Default dad here but worked 60 hours week at same time while stay at home mom couldn’t do it.
2024-03-20 13:31:52
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Biskit :
I try to step in and help since she's the default. sometimes it helps. sometimes she still steps in and doesn't let me help
2024-03-20 12:35:18
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Terry Kraut :
My son (5) will ask me for things in the kitchen while I'm on the toilet and dad is standing in the kitchen! 😂
2024-03-20 14:51:58
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Barry Mccockiner :
I was working full time and was still the default mom here!
2024-03-20 12:17:17
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Girl_Mommy21 :
Please let this fall on his fyp
2024-08-09 19:09:43
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Krystal :
I'm the default parent even as a FT working mom
2024-03-22 05:15:34
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Sarah🍉 :
My kids have learned that their dad will not be there for them the way that I am. His loss when they won’t have a good relationship later.
2024-03-20 14:13:20
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Sammie :
I was recently laid off. When I told my husband I might find a job where I have to go into the office he was like “how am I gonna handle the kids schedule”
2024-03-20 21:01:51
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Ashley Anderson :
One of the reasons we divorced—if I’m going to do it alone—might as well be alone so there’s not an expectation of anything different.
2024-03-26 11:41:01
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Restless Hands :
I’m saddened by TikTok when I find out that this isn’t the norm with other people. Like, how is doing the basic minimum is a big ask? 😞
2024-03-20 18:05:13
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Tariq Alrowaily :
Well I learned that my way is wrong and her way is right even though ✨✌🏽there’s no right way and we both new parents ✨✌🏽 so yeah I will not do anything if not asked to and HOW exactly to do it
2024-04-04 01:21:26
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Jinnie :
my ex of 8 months has our girls separately at weekends bc he can't cope with them together and also to 'bond' with them. they're 13 and 15 yr old.
2024-03-20 12:20:59
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cat :
My man could never.. I made it so he could quit his job & he failed to engage w/our kids. He fights with them, his “help” is more trouble than it’s worth 😑 He’s lost my respect; my third child.
2024-03-20 21:28:58
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Cristalboba1987 :
Bruh you hit the nail on the head with this!!! Ugh and we have an austic plus
2024-03-21 03:13:53
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Tami Baker :
My husband just noticed this happening while I'm trying to make food and he said "hey boys, let's take a walk with the dog!" I'm so lucky to have someone who recognizes when this is happening
2024-03-20 22:00:59
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Ashley Stonecipher :
Sir, you almost made me cry this morning due to how accurate this is.
2024-03-21 13:22:00
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rnjem :
not to mention that the default parent is also having more of a relationship with the kids
2024-03-20 13:40:19
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sweetpea :
My husband had a present but unhelpful dad. Seeing his mom do it all made him determined not to be that way.
2024-03-21 21:52:53
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kuhlsnu :
If they yell “Mommmm!” from the other room, as the dad, starts yelling back, “Yes?” they'll answer you.
2024-03-23 14:25:14
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sa_fire2003 :
Yes! And is even more exhausting when the kid has a handicap.
2024-03-20 15:47:19
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