@nialui21: I struggled a lot with the expectations I put on myself after getting pregnant without being married. I felt like I needed to prove to myself and everyone that I could “fix” it by being a perfect mom. Nothing needed to be fixed. I needed to change my mindset and allow myself to just enjoy my beautiful baby. #singlemom #singlemotherhood #formersinglemom #perfectmom #momguilt #shame #outofwedlock #momlife #postpartum #expectations