@lifecoachshawn: Have you ever left a good man? If so, why did you do it and do you regret it? In this video I explain why some single men have been shaming single women for leaving “good men”and why I feel like it’s a new way of telling women to settle. #creatorsearchinsights #datingtips #datingadvice #leavinggoodmen @Shawnda
my "good man" didn't cheat or beat me, but when I said I was leaving due to the way he talked to me, he choked me... so
2024-03-25 00:29:42
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Vanessa_ArachnoVegan🇨🇦 :
There’s this push to reward men for doing the bare minimum. You’re not getting kudos for being a bare human decent person. 🙄
2024-03-25 00:10:40
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Alexandrea Sharae :
They think being a good man is having a job and paying bills on time.
2024-03-24 23:38:18
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No, absolutely not.🌳 :
It’s a Red Flag if a man says he’s a good man in my book. Good ppl don’t walk around telling others they’re good.
2024-03-24 23:28:12
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Mr. K. :
damn we can't win anything
2025-05-26 04:50:44
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ThatGirl001 :
Good by whose standards?
2024-03-24 23:29:58
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Melissa | Your Yoga Mentor :
Bare minimum does not = good
2024-03-25 03:27:58
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TheGirlOnFireAndIce :
even IF both parties are good people, they can be the wrong fit or the wrong love language or needs or values or just too much conflict
2024-03-25 00:35:10
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decorativedeluxe :
I left a man who pushed me through a door when I called him out on his behavior. He still describes himself to everyone as a NICE GUY and a mammas boy.
2024-03-24 23:13:38
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Tracy :
My ex thought that I divorced him solely because he “didn’t do dishes.” He didn’t get it. He never listened to the years I begged him to go to counseling with me. 🤷🏼♀️Hence the divorce. Onward!
2024-03-25 00:36:40
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The Posh History Professor :
A lot of men describe themselves as a “good man” based on what they don’t do (abuse, etc.) rather than the attributes they actually bring to a relationships.
2024-03-24 23:22:37
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Zeus Fx :
I’m confused, who defined the good man in this situation and trend?
2025-05-26 04:37:35
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MsPam996 :
Don’t rush to be miserable
2024-03-25 01:33:09
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BLV :
Yes the weaponized incompetence is what gets me!
2024-03-25 00:05:14
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tigerkitten36 :
My ex said to me when I divorcing him "at least I didn't hit you".
2024-03-24 23:44:25
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imtheburghgal5 :
House Devil, outside angel
2024-03-24 23:15:37
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Hairmunsta :
My ex husband was a good friend to his friends. I literally said I wish you treated me like you treat your homies
2024-03-25 03:08:34
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Cake Bae :
they'll rush us to settle just to blame us when it all goes wrong.
2024-03-24 23:22:27
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sunflowerdreamstar86 :
Sometimes you can meet a really good guy and just not love him or like him and that’s OK
2024-03-25 04:11:02
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diaryofamadblackteacher2 ❌️ :
They think they're good because they don't cause physical harm. 🤷🏿
2024-03-24 23:16:37
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best.emx :
Women at work think my ex is a catch! Lol. They didn’t have to live w/him, raise his kids, clean and parent alone. 😂
2024-03-25 00:06:22
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Yvette :
Somebody finally said it‼️
2024-03-25 00:35:11
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kim Wright :
good men should come with a grate check n a good sprite. I don't care what anybody say Financials first
2024-03-25 00:31:47
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La Jefa ✨ :
People think being good automatically means yall are compatible, that’s not always the case
2024-03-24 23:41:48
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Sage Girvin :
I love listening to you! Straight facts and so well spoken
2024-03-25 04:43:49
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