@isabella.lauren: I also have a theory that hyper- independent people are also the oldest child but maybe thats just me 🫣 #hyperindependence #hyperindependent #dating #relationships
Feeling safe is my BIGGEST priority, and unfortunately going after romantic love puts me in an unsafe position 😭
2024-03-27 10:11:16
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so julia! :
bro it's so comforting to see another girl share my exact mindset. i struggle so much with vulnerability and it feels so isolating sometimes
2024-03-27 02:30:06
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KeySlaysss 🍒🪩🍸 :
It’s so much easier to ✨Not✨
2024-03-27 14:14:04
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Laura :
Am I asexual aromantic or am I just traumatized into hyperindependence?
2024-03-27 12:14:32
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rachel :
It’s like I’m listening to the mirror
2024-03-27 01:41:16
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Christina :
Girl my therapist was shocked that I never had a boyfriend at 26 😭 she’d be gagged that now I’m 29 and still haven’t
2024-03-27 05:13:37
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Mya Moorhous :
My parents have been happily together since high school so what’s my issue
2024-03-27 02:27:52
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danielle :
I am also 23 and never been in a relationship! 😊 very much agree that it’s not something I need, I am not forcing things or settling. rather be this way than be someone who CAN’T be alone
2024-03-27 01:56:18
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isabelfab :
Oldest sister trauma 🤝
2024-03-27 19:12:49
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Sam P :
Literally relate to you soo much! Oldest child and super independent! I felt like the middle man to both my parents growing up, so super aware and don’t want to be in a marriage like my parents…
2024-03-27 01:32:49
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Shan :) :
the hyper independence is too real
2024-03-27 21:16:35
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ava :) :
I’m 21 and I’ve been single my whole life 🤝🏼 we’re in this together girl
2024-03-27 00:20:12
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jordanruffner2 :
Or avoidantly attached.
2024-03-26 03:38:35
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brawlydor :
Oldest child here of divorced parents. Yep. People will just disappoint you.
2024-03-26 21:43:07
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muna :
@caro this is how i feel
2024-06-09 22:38:25
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alexa linchuck :
ok literally me
2024-06-30 03:33:11
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Shawna :
I’m the poster child for hyper independent and I’m the youngest 😅
2024-03-27 00:23:08
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siben :
omg same! it’s like as soon as i get close to anyone, I pull away because it’s just easier than being vulnerable
2024-03-27 03:09:51
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JudasDoThis :
Alan watts falling in love speech/perspective would be a good one for you to listen too it changed my perspective for sure
2024-03-26 03:54:36
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Stephen Shy :
One day someone will come along and it will all fit
2024-03-26 10:25:37
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grace :
saying you like to be alone because that’s safe and comfortable just unlocked a new realization in me
2024-03-27 11:30:36
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Melody Schmidt :
Same situation girlie, I’m hyper independent to a fault too
2024-03-26 18:37:18
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