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The Pelvic Dance Floor :
“If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no” has been my go to for the last few years
2024-03-26 20:34:02
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Dollymix :
I tell them I have 150 reasons on my list and ask if they want to hear all of them!
2024-03-31 02:24:06
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Kortney :
Yes ma’am! It’s more than sufficient. The question itself is already an invasion of privacy.
2024-04-06 13:08:24
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Erin Klingsberg :
I think we’d make great parents and have a lot of love to give, but our life is full already and we don’t want to make the sacrifices parenting demands. Time, money, priorities, lifestyle etc.
2024-03-30 00:46:08
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waitwut :
“that’s not in my plans right now” is my go to answer
2024-03-28 15:54:13
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astoria alice :
I got this one from my grandma: “I’ll forgive you for asking if you forgive me for not answering”
2024-04-03 12:18:50
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gumscape :
my god you are everything i want to be when i’m 35
2024-03-30 00:55:40
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Sophia Dockery :
recently I've been using: I can't think of a reason to have kids that isn't selfish. this is after several 'who is going to take care of you when you're old' comments.
2024-03-26 18:29:40
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Britt :
“I don’t want to be responsible for another human.”
2024-04-02 19:17:33
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Karinelagrandebrune :
"Because I just don't want to. Why do YOU want/have kids?"
2024-04-01 21:30:21
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Zak Berrie :
“None of your business.” Is also a perfectly good response.
2024-03-26 15:53:53
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Kristyn 🆘🇺🇸 :
My usual response is “it seems awful and I have no interest in doing any of it”
2024-03-26 18:24:41
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veronica_writes :
“If that was something I wished to discuss with you, you would know” is my answer
2024-03-26 20:02:49
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Ella Cerón :
I tell people that if I’m ambivalent at best about having them that’s absolutely a sign I shouldn’t
2024-03-26 20:57:02
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DiceSeeds-✨Artisan Dicemaker ✨ :
My fave response is “I promised my first born to a witch and I don’t want to pay up” and if someone still pushes I say exactly the reasoning here
2024-03-27 22:10:45
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Lynne Hillman :
Someone once said to me “It just doesn’t look like that much fun.” 💯 the answer.
2024-03-26 20:37:55
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Annie :
my new one is “daycare costs more than college” because according to my child having friends, this is sadly now the case
2024-03-26 19:44:09
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Emily I 🍉 :
I can barely take care of myself 🙈
2024-03-26 15:54:19
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june doux :
I always ask them “why do you want children?”
2024-03-27 22:50:08
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sarahe77 :
“You should need a better reason for wanting children than not wanting them” 🎯🎯🎯
2024-03-26 15:58:43
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💬 :
"It's just not my journey 💁♀️"
2024-03-28 01:46:01
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LaLo :
I wish there were more child free by choice characters in media!! Cristina Yang from greys anatomy is the only one that comes to mind
2024-03-27 01:53:51
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BamBoomBop :
I say “I am not willingly giving the world another person to abuse.”
2024-03-26 15:44:19
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Nola Smart :
“I like sleep too much”
2024-03-27 03:29:19
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Nuha Said :
Frankly, people should not ask. It’s not their business.
2024-03-28 00:10:33
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Liz :
My response is “think of any reason and they’re all your answers”
2024-03-28 16:54:42
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bubblywife417 :
Someone asked us why we don’t want kids and my husband just said “because we have decided not to” and it was like a mic drop
2024-03-27 14:31:47
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jackiedaytonasbar :
i am gonna start telling the truth that both of us have issues with depression and that would be a horrible time for a kid
2024-03-26 16:23:24
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user1558420780955 :
I want children, but I completely agree with you.
2024-04-02 01:07:44
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Lauren Tarpley :
I’m one and done. We love our daughter but there is a long list of why not a second. Ppl judge “just one” too. Close friends have actually said it’s cruel! Ugh - ppl gotta do what works for them!
2024-03-28 17:39:19
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chris_john2022🆘🇺🇸 :
The best thing I ever did for all my kids was never have them.
2024-03-27 00:39:09
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Meesh :
You’re such a queen
2024-03-26 23:31:47
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DoggoneGardener :
I have been married 36 years and I say, “We opted out.” 😉
2024-04-12 02:16:21
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Laura :
America. If I could move somewhere that respected people over profits, I would consider it.
2024-03-30 20:40:12
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frillyfolding :
Because I’d rather regret not having them than regret having them. I say this as I’m dealing with being an unwanted child still, at almost 40-years old.
2024-03-27 15:41:30
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Jocelyn / Casual Style :
I like to say well we’re on the fence about getting a dog because it’s so much work so….
2024-04-06 22:14:55
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Lar77 :
A simple, no thank you is what I'm saying from now on
2024-04-02 20:12:31
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Becca | thenightstandbook :
My question is why are people still asking this question? Whether it’s a choice or not, people need to mind their own business. I love everyone who is giving the mic drop answers though 👏🏼
2024-03-27 17:42:09
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Kelly Day :
I’m 39 and simply don’t want them. Never had a desire to have children. No other reason than that
2024-03-27 15:53:09
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😎 :
People constantly ask why im not having another. I hate it.
2024-03-26 19:54:42
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quaintrellenyc :
The bloodline ends with me.
2024-04-20 16:25:46
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Alexa :
Wait… I’m obsessed with your mind… love this response
2024-04-16 19:48:15
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Stbjsbdkd567 :
I firmly believe the people who don’t want kids are more responsible than most ppl who have kids. They thought about all the details of what having a kid brings.
2024-03-27 16:33:11
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Janelle Ann :
“i like spending my money on me” 😏
2024-04-02 12:25:49
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KK @ feierabend :
“I just don’t like / want them” - no additional explanation needed 🤷🏼♀️why is no one asking people why they DO want to have kids?
2024-03-31 19:09:40
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AJ :
I feel like ppl ask this because they are just now realizing that it was an option for them, but maybe it’s too late now. So I think your explanation is great, and I think it’s doing more than u know.
2024-03-27 13:46:56
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Kara :
if you can think of any single possible reason why someone doesn’t want children, you could add that one under my name too. my NIGHTMARE.
2024-03-31 11:38:05
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Meow meow :
I like to say I’m barren. Really shuts the convo down
2024-03-31 02:51:23
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L + D :
I tell people “I identify as a non breeder” and it usually makes people giggle and shut up. 😂
2024-03-28 18:57:43
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Alex ✨🌙 :
As a woman who has a child and wants more, this is 100% valid and more women should feel empowered to own their feelings this way!
2024-03-27 02:46:17
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Allison :
👏👏👏
2024-03-26 18:34:16
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Alison :
100% i usually tell people I just don't REALLY want them and children deserve a mom who is SUPER excited to have them
2024-03-27 16:29:47
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