@beyondcodependency: book: Soul Whispering by Linda Star Wolf & Nita Gage #codependency #shadowwork #narcissistic #pity #selfawareness #compassion #relationships #peoplepleaser #codependent
This 👏👏👏 can we also talk about the abusive backlash from anxious attachers toward avoidants just trying to live in peace and not give in to anxious love bombing??
2024-03-31 14:01:02
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user8186249107656 :
Frank language around what codependency really is, is good. Ppl think it's a form of love and it's not, it's selfish and harmful (and we all do it to some extent).
2024-03-28 22:57:36
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Saskia :
I immediately feel this type of energy coming at me that’s why I’m hesitant when someone pushes me to open up
2024-03-28 18:33:35
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V :
I love your disclaimer 💗 and - this seems super logical to me… I can see those that haven’t learned self compassion being a bit stuck here
2024-03-29 03:21:32
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Jenna :
This resonated with me and I’m a little shook. Damn.
2024-03-29 11:56:53
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Grace :
May I get some help… I know I am not ok. And I prefer to be alone. Not codependent nor have anyone dependent to me.
2024-04-11 05:52:02
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Sam :
so how do you know when you've just given freely for so long and realize you aren't ever getting anything back? is it ever ok to wish to be taken care of back?
2024-05-19 16:40:29
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Kes 🌸🩷 :
❤️
2025-01-12 18:35:58
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Amy Z :
Interesting…Altruism is spelled incorrectly
2024-03-29 14:45:37
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EmilijaLDucks they/them 🍉 :
Love shouldn't be transactional. it takes guts to make sure you give without conditions, expectations, or control. And it takes guts to not accept imposed conditions and guilt
2024-03-28 19:36:01
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☀️nightshadetat🌔 :
Oof. This is for the ppl that are always questioning if THEYRE the narcissist. Spirituality isnt always rainbows n butterflies
2024-03-28 17:48:30
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Cindy 🆘🇺🇸 :
Oops 😬🤫
2024-03-28 17:29:36
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Beebs :
Fascinating. I see it in parents with thier children, adult or not.
2024-04-25 16:06:11
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Someone's Dad :
it screams that it's written by a bitter narcacist 🤣
2024-04-04 02:02:40
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leeleemm :
😔😔😔😔oh man I didn't realise how manipulating codependency can be
2024-04-01 03:23:46
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Nanabahisenough :
What you described was middle class white women Buddhism from 1980, also called Enlightened Self Interest. The concept of Karma as a confirmation of superiority, ‘so sorry your life is so hard’
2024-03-31 14:18:43
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Lexi😝 :
Taylor swift sings about this
2024-03-30 12:11:53
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