Imagine being an anxiously attached people but having to train yourself to be avoidant.. now I can’t even function.
2024-03-30 15:47:19
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𝒦ℯ𝒾𝓈𝒽𝒶ꨄ🫧 :
I’m anxious attachment dealing with an avoidant attachment person 🥺it’s really hard to deal with to be honest
2024-03-31 19:36:07
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Shania Lee :
It’s hard for the avoidant attachment person to communicate verbally just as hard as it is for the anxious individual to hold back
2024-04-07 09:43:10
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ohfoxman :
if you need so much space.... stay alone! don't get into a relationship and destroy someone!;!!!
2024-04-03 20:44:59
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Ahlena🍓🐝💋 :
Avoidant people are never satisfied. They always need space. Be alone then ✌🏼
2024-04-01 12:37:02
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🇬🇹MarFern🇺🇸 :
As an avoidant attachment person. People make it seem like we chose to be that way. It’s harder for us to know anything we do can hurt them
2024-04-01 16:49:44
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♡₊˚⊹𝖙𝖞𝖗𝖆₊˚⊹♡ :
Unfortunately this is so so real😭 I’m so anxiously attached I HATE it
2024-03-30 14:49:56
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niickyray :
Avoidant people pull back because they don’t want to fight. Once the conversation leads to an argument the avoidant slowly shuts down. It’s not because they don’t care, it’s because they don’t want to
2024-04-05 07:00:17
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Brooke 💕 :
I have an anxious attachment style. I now honestly just have gotten to the point where if they push away so do I because I don’t wanna fight for someone that doesn’t want to try to make it work.
2024-04-02 01:29:51
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Miranda🩶 :
I have anxious attachment and ALWAYS end up with avoidant attachment people!
2024-03-30 13:15:49
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Matthew Wallace :
I never see any advice for the avoidant… Everything I see on the Internet, tells the anxious to give the avoidant what they need… 😳😏
2024-03-30 11:57:52
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Ashley :
The crazy thing is.. both come from the same fear of abandonment. Gotta work on healing your attachment style and becoming more secure. It’s hard but well worth it.
2024-04-23 23:59:03
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Darryl Packard :
But why do the anxious attachment always the ones who has to adapt to the avoidant
2024-04-22 00:51:00
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🖤Nikki🖤 :
Being an anxiously attached person dating an avoidant tong to give him space, now I can't eat, sleep work, function or even human for that matter! 🥺
2024-04-06 16:19:46
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Mic :
Every time i hear of this combo it’s always on the anxious attached person to control their feelings for the avoidant person. Honestly don’t understand why it’s never recommended for avoidant person
2024-04-02 12:48:41
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Tasha Siera :
THANK YOU!! I keep saying this!!! I don’t need reassurance every damn minute, but when you disappear with no word … how am I supposed to feel
2024-04-01 20:44:46
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appy10170 :
I feel like people too often label needing reasonable assurance & closeness “anxious” when in reality their partner is being distant/dismissive not just needing healthy amounts of space/autonomy…
2024-04-01 05:19:00
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it's Ty4 Short :
I honestly feel like both of the attachment styles can balance each other out if they listen to each other
2024-04-15 01:45:04
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EmaNelson :
avoidant attachment person here and the ones who hate me the most are the ones who are anxious attached people.
2024-03-30 15:53:29
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Haven :
Im both. My anxious attachment will eventually get me to detach and I’ll start to avoid them😂. it gets easier lmao
2024-03-30 08:37:04
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ta.neva :
as an anxious attachment everything she said was straight facts. This is so hard and it’s even harder trying to match their energy when u don’t want to, to avoid conflict .
2024-04-10 22:12:47
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Ururu83 :
Yes because with me I just need to know that we are good and everything is ok in the relationship in order for me to give you all the spce you need!
2024-03-31 12:54:06
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lindsey 💖 :
a lot of times doesn’t work bc the anxious does the work to meet in middle but once everything is on the avoidants terms the anxious just
2024-04-05 01:51:28
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damdam :
It makes me sad that so many anxious attachments attack avoidants like the both of them dont need to try and heal.
2024-04-25 20:30:07
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✟mavis✟ :
people saying "if your avoidant, don't get into a relationship" but the same goes for an anxious if you're just gonna be insecure and need constant reassurance it can turn a securely attached individu
2024-04-09 04:59:41
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