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876____keisha
𝒦ℯ𝒾𝓈𝒽𝒶ꨄ🫧 :
I’m anxious attachment dealing with an avoidant attachment person 🥺it’s really hard to deal with to be honest
2024-03-31 19:36:07
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conversionkittie
🖤 witch of the willows 🖤 :
Not to, but it definitely requires a learning process on the other person’s part and how to nip it in the butt by having certain consistent conversations or behaviors, and eventually it goes away
2026-08-26 17:57:23
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shania.lee2
Shania Lee :
It’s hard for the avoidant attachment person to communicate verbally just as hard as it is for the anxious individual to hold back
2024-04-07 09:43:10
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imanileemichelle
Imes :
Imagine being an anxiously attached people but having to train yourself to be avoidant.. now I can’t even function.
2024-03-30 15:47:19
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ahlenagood
Ahlena🍓🐝💋 :
Avoidant people are never satisfied. They always need space. Be alone then ✌🏼
2024-04-01 12:37:02
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_nelsonema
EmaNelson :
avoidant attachment person here and the ones who hate me the most are the ones who are anxious attached people.
2024-03-30 15:53:29
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donmogul868
donmogul :
if you need so much space.... stay alone! don't get into a relationship and destroy someone!;!!!
2024-04-03 20:44:59
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ffern95
🇬🇹MarFern🇺🇸 :
As an avoidant attachment person. People make it seem like we chose to be that way. It’s harder for us to know anything we do can hurt them
2024-04-01 16:49:44
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sincerelymir_
Miranda🩶 :
I have anxious attachment and ALWAYS end up with avoidant attachment people!
2024-03-30 13:15:49
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.s1eepy_head
✟mavis✟ :
people saying "if your avoidant, don't get into a relationship" but the same goes for an anxious if you're just gonna be insecure and need constant reassurance it can turn a securely attached individu
2024-04-09 04:59:41
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tyramaarie
♡₊˚⊹𝖙𝖞𝖗𝖆₊˚⊹♡ :
Unfortunately this is so so real😭 I’m so anxiously attached I HATE it
2024-03-30 14:49:56
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mswallace
Matthew Wallace :
I never see any advice for the avoidant… Everything I see on the Internet, tells the anxious to give the avoidant what they need… 😳😏
2024-03-30 11:57:52
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broimfreee
Brooke 💕 :
I have an anxious attachment style. I now honestly just have gotten to the point where if they push away so do I because I don’t wanna fight for someone that doesn’t want to try to make it work.
2024-04-02 01:29:51
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tashasieranyc
Tasha Siera :
THANK YOU!! I keep saying this!!! I don’t need reassurance every damn minute, but when you disappear with no word … how am I supposed to feel
2024-04-01 20:44:46
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ash_bash2019
Ashley :
The crazy thing is.. both come from the same fear of abandonment. Gotta work on healing your attachment style and becoming more secure. It’s hard but well worth it.
2024-04-23 23:59:03
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appy10170
appy10170 :
I feel like people too often label needing reasonable assurance & closeness “anxious” when in reality their partner is being distant/dismissive not just needing healthy amounts of space/autonomy…
2024-04-01 05:19:00
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samashford1
Sam Ashford :
Anxious attachment style people and avoidant attachment style people are mirroring each other’s fears. Instead of blaming the other person learn from it and start to heal your childhood trauma!
2024-04-04 02:23:14
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desleyvv
Desley :
Why is it always about that anxious needs to give the avoidant space and get triggered. Why not reversing it. Avoident should give the anxious some validation, then pull back.
2024-04-05 17:20:53
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nikki.nik.81
🖤Nikki🖤 :
Being an anxiously attached person dating an avoidant tong to give him space, now I can't eat, sleep work, function or even human for that matter! 🥺
2024-04-06 16:19:46
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micahandersonh
Mic :
Every time i hear of this combo it’s always on the anxious attached person to control their feelings for the avoidant person. Honestly don’t understand why it’s never recommended for avoidant person
2024-04-02 12:48:41
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ilovesprite1594
lindsey 💖 :
a lot of times doesn’t work bc the anxious does the work to meet in middle but once everything is on the avoidants terms the anxious just
2024-04-05 01:51:28
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3littlebirds88
3littlebirds88 :
Avoidants don’t want avoidants. Tells you something
2024-04-04 02:18:45
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itsty4short
it's Ty4 Short :
I honestly feel like both of the attachment styles can balance each other out if they listen to each other
2024-04-15 01:45:04
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dazra3l
damdam :
It makes me sad that so many anxious attachments attack avoidants like the both of them dont need to try and heal.
2024-04-25 20:30:07
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havenkianah
Haven :
Im both. My anxious attachment will eventually get me to detach and I’ll start to avoid them😂. it gets easier lmao
2024-03-30 08:37:04
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