@chris_hatfield: Anxious Attachment: Why you shouldn't stay friends after a breakup #breakup #breakups #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #selfesteem #trustyourgut

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geolupus
🎴 GEOLUPUS 🀄 :
he ended a 3+ yr relationship last week... neither of us have other friends - he wants to stay friends, I want him back... advice? 😭
2024-04-03 07:22:04
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brotherjcrimson
Brother J :
If you do wish to be friends. You need to take time apart to heal and move on. After enough time revisit it. At least that would be my advice.
2024-04-04 15:41:38
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pup_pleiades
Pup Pleiades :
But I want him back so badly 😭
2024-06-12 21:30:36
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user197057909449
see yous down the front :
I could, I would just move on right in front of them like they weren’t even a thing
2024-04-02 19:35:16
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thehorrorspersistasdoi
🪻 :
I made the mistake of saying "yes we can stay friends" after a breakup when I was like 17. He stalked me. was pretty mad.
2024-04-04 08:18:50
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lurema07601
Luis Remache230 :
Currently doing this rn
2024-04-04 11:07:17
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vivaashvegas
VivaAshVegas :
My fyp is getting a little too exact …
2024-04-07 01:05:28
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kingscittles
KingScittles :
my best friend is an ex it def depends on person and reason for breakup too and establishin boundaries which ik alot people who forget to do that.
2024-06-22 09:29:47
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abbie777xx
abbie :
Would you ever make a podcast?
2024-06-20 16:02:06
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cozmic_16
Cozmic :
For real make sense 💯🫡
2024-04-02 18:16:42
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mrjarheadcrazy
Mrjarheadcrazy :
Danm straight im not gonna be there friend.
2024-04-02 20:11:23
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better_no_pls
better_no :
I have feeling this is more avoidant thing - I’m anxious and when I’m done I’m done. All my avoidant exs wanted to stay friends…
2024-04-03 20:13:41
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feowuu
Feower :
yeah idk what I'm doing
2024-04-02 18:38:04
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d1ana1057
Diana :
My ex and I are still friends because we agreed the relationship was a bad idea. So we just went back to how things were and joke about our relationship
2024-04-03 22:47:17
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juliomarin98
Oso1989 :
I wanted to friends but couldn’t do it. Standing on the side line while he was talking or with someone else hurt a lot more.
2024-06-25 16:22:38
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mediocreavocado
Lara :
I’m the anxious one and I ended the relationship and I chose for us to go no contact….. and damn I want her back
2024-04-02 21:32:13
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southwestls
Southwest :
saying no to friendship with exs has never helped build my self respect
2024-04-03 12:48:11
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tilkymits
Tilky :
We mutually agreed to remain friends, and honestly it was the best for both of us. We love each other, I wish him the best, but he wasn’t for me.
2024-04-03 08:55:15
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heyangelhi
Heyangelhi :
Yea I just learned u can say no to a friendship
2024-04-03 02:47:51
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dylanxsegz
DylanxSegz :
Yeah I had kids with her so we have to stay in touch forever now.
2024-04-03 08:09:05
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jackharper37
Jack Harper490 :
It’s a bit harder if you have kids together. You can’t just walk away and you need to be amicable for the kids. Best staying friends in this situation so the kids don’t see their parents hating eachot
2024-07-19 05:54:38
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sand_on_toast
Santos :
NOW YOU TELL ME!
2024-04-09 15:30:46
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andy_o_neill
Andy O'Neill | Life Coach :
Yes. Staying friends can keep you in the Hope stage, and that can stop you getting over them. Its hard, but letting them go is best for you in the long run.
2024-04-08 07:53:53
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ollynock
con con :
oh yikes
2024-04-06 17:23:41
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...joni
Kell :
yup..I can't do this .
2024-04-05 21:55:39
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blackqueenm11
KiKi :
That's true. Plus the one who said let's be friends after a break up might be a narcissist who wants to still have some control over their victim
2024-04-05 15:59:34
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ish_.77
Ish :
Honestly me and ex stayed that way - an ex. It was tough but better because out of sight out of mind. that doesn't mean you dislike them and you still wish them the best.
2024-04-04 19:27:11
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mustangranch22
CaseysMustangRanch :
One of the hardest things to do..... especially when kids are involved that aren't yours.... but want you to stay
2024-04-04 14:30:46
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busilylouise
Louise :
It’s been 4 months and we keep caving and re contacting
2024-04-03 17:03:00
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idkmikeish
IdkMike :
I used it as an opportunity to face and process my emotions because it was *incredibly* emotionally intense. Also aimed to be a good model for her since she struggled with processing emotions herself
2024-04-03 06:15:48
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jwiggle27
Wiggles :
Ended a relationship on a Tuesday and he still wanted to be friends and asked if we could still due our weekly trivia nights. It was a bad idea for me to do.
2024-04-04 14:00:57
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dreadpiratebr
Dread Pirate BR :
I’m in the thick of it. I had a friend to become something more and then it just as quickly ended. We tried being friends again, but I realized I was just gonna get hurt more and went no contact.
2024-04-03 19:13:56
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tkthoughts
Tom :
Love this. It’s about taking care of yourself. Not punishing the other person. Hooray boundaries
2024-04-03 21:23:42
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blunkleblad
Bluke :
I'm SURE this is meant for someone else 👀
2024-04-04 10:27:07
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ukbigmac666
BIGMAC :
It’s all good it’s only a month break…that’s what we said…it’s only a month right?
2024-06-30 15:09:21
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malcolmrichy
Malcolm_Xx? :
how do I let go when she left me with no real explanation and she tells me I haven't done anything wrong? I don't get it I'm just hurting and in pain
2024-06-29 10:35:28
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ugeswarygunasegran
uges 🧿 :
Why does he asked for breakup and later stays single until now and he wants me to be his friend since the breakup? it's been 3 yrs
2024-04-03 15:20:08
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chloe_rxse
Chloe Rose :
we still live together so agreed to be friends but it's so difficult and I can't avoid him I don't know what to do
2024-06-17 17:20:05
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xxenace
🖤 :
what about an ex situationship that lasted about a month until he decided he didnt want a relationship and now we’re just friends because i actually like spending time with him and hes fun to hang w?
2024-06-16 00:49:31
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intriguing_streets
intriguing_streets :
Read… It’s Called A Breakup Because It’s Broken by Greg Behrendt & Love Life by Matthew Hussey
2024-06-15 10:35:15
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katnizzle
kathleen 🌸☀️ :
Blah. I hate this
2024-04-04 21:07:38
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dahomietonyx
Tony :
She told me this and I walked away … blocked her on everything … in a couple months after I heal imma burn everything else … I love her but I can’t be around her
2024-06-09 23:01:49
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h3ro_xvi
H3RO_XVI :
What about when you have kids?
2024-04-04 16:45:35
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