@brandi_beautifullybroken: Why avoidants have a hard time and avoid taking accountability for their mistakes and wrongdoings in relationships. #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #relationshipproblems #dating #marriage #Relationship
This is so on point. The blame shift. Focus always ends up on my reaction. I end up taking accountability for how I reacted and I become the bad guy. It makes me feel like Im crazy when I know Im not
2024-04-06 12:17:45
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goofball555 :
I don’t even upset him.. he just goes away when he is stressed about life! 🤷♀️
2024-04-02 21:43:29
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Leigh :
Because they are actually narcs. Just run, they aren’t worth it.
2024-04-03 04:46:48
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Somebeach62 :
So how do you effectively express your emotions to them
2024-04-25 17:43:50
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jy :
avoidants dont reciprocate their words, actions says a lot.
2024-04-03 02:51:23
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Redsfan1973 :
This is so very true!Many do not take accountability and bury their head in the sand while the partner lays in shambles, 100% kudos to the few who recognize and put in work on healing themselves ☺️
2024-04-02 22:51:20
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Becky :
After 2 weeks of no contact, his way of apologizing was “I acted like a d*** the whole time.”I’m glad he at least self reflected.
2024-04-03 01:24:28
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SweetNSassy :
Four years and he never we once took accountability or apologized. He just would say I am being dramatic when I try to have a serious conversation 🤦♀️☹️
2024-04-02 23:49:41
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Tabitha jayne :
it's ben almost a year I can't move on I can't get past confronting him because I never got to
2024-04-09 02:14:24
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Debbie Gruszczinski :
We all have our stories from childhood and can't blame it on that forever. I was abused growing up and I can be accountability for my actions
2024-04-02 23:12:24
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• KARMA • :
Do avoidants fail to acknowledge that they breadcrumb people?
2024-04-03 01:45:49
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Joanna Mason :
I just realized I am a DA in the last 48 hours. I'm truly mindblown. It explains so so much. I realize I need therapy and we need couple's counseling. But the thought of having those discussions make
2024-06-30 01:19:14
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Vee :
But do they internalize it? Like even if they don't take accountability to you, do they recognize it internally?
2024-04-02 20:52:26
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Biagio :
Spot on unfortunately it’s too late for us now. She’s convinced she’s securely attached
2024-04-03 16:37:55
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angelamackillop :
Yes thank you
2024-04-02 20:52:51
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dustinmerrell1634 :
What can I do better in the relationship if I’m not the fearful avoidant? I’m lost because I’ve tired so many things.
2024-04-26 04:01:04
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Heya :
saying sorry without changing behaviour is meaningless, and saying sorry is the max he can do and expect that’s accountability
2024-04-03 05:49:17
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Yahoo :
I am one myself. Thanks for your video it was great 👍🏻
2024-05-25 20:36:49
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Amy Atwood :
Can and Anxious attachment and a dismissive make a marriage work. Been married 22 years and we are at a dead end. I want do fix it and he is pulling away
2024-04-02 23:43:41
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Tristan :
I don’t think I care why anymore. I need to care about how it traumatized me and heal and find someone new
2024-04-19 19:46:14
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Eric Taylor Sr. :
This is great information
2024-04-02 21:13:50
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Ali Caldwell Paine :
I have binge watched all your videos. My fiancé and I are both DA. I am AWARE of MY DA. How do I talk to him about his DA and help us connect and get past our DA?
2024-04-25 20:19:03
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lepomme :
so hard for the other person. Imagine being lied every time just because they can not take accountability...
2024-04-03 04:33:37
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skidsteer :
They are narcissists! Wake up folks
2025-02-06 05:30:17
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Noone :
Feels like they’re gaslighting you
2024-09-14 14:55:34
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