@tinybluegurl: This ones a bit vulnerable but this is a struggle for me when it comes to my closest relationship. I can come across as rude, cold, and uncaring a lot of the time - unintentionally. I am not always aware of my tone or facial expressioms and body language. Something a lot of autistic people can struggle with. Even with being aware of it now its still not easy. I tend to have flat affect in my safe spaces when I dont have to mask, and unfortunately it comes across to others as if im mad or intentionally being rude a lot of the time when that’s not the case. #audhd #audhdtok #autisticthoughts #autisticadult #autismacceptance #autisticjourney #neurodivergent #imautistic #actuallyautistic #latediagnosedautistic #adhd #adhdtok #autisminwomen #autismawareness
WHY IS IT EASIER TO TYPE WORDS INSTEAD OF SAY THEM?!?!
2024-04-03 17:38:07
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ms.kaye087 :
“I love you. Please go away. Sorry. I love you. But please don’t come near me or talk to me rn. But I love you. For real.”
2024-04-03 21:28:01
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HouseOfExile :
Every question is like an ice pick to the brain when I’m overstimulated 🤣
2024-04-03 17:53:55
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🍉 Rhi 🍉 :
it's the rapid fire questions, dude. i can't handle it i feel like i'm being interrogated even though they're just tryingnto connect 🥺
2024-04-03 20:00:38
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chatocruze :
The “can I hug you now” after you just said you weren’t ready for touch…I felt that deep in my soul
2024-04-03 16:22:41
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Natalie B :
For me it’s when he comes home from work and even though I’ve had the house for 8 hours to myself, I’m still annoyed he’s interrupting my space and energy 🤣
2024-04-04 01:58:25
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FireFeathers🖕🧊 :
I feel this. Being authentic to yourself and having someone “try to help” without upsetting them is such a thin line. Feels like the worst kind of juggling.
2024-04-03 17:42:43
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YEETWOOD.MAC 🏳️🌈🍉 :
In these moments, my husband & I developed a “safe word” we can use that means “I am not mad, I’m just in my head & don’t have spoons atm & I need alone time, but I love you” it helps SO MUCH
2024-04-03 23:38:28
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yuh :
But everybody swears up and down I’m not autistic lol
2024-04-03 17:24:49
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mollyaislyn :
It’s like “ugh why are you here in my spaaace” and then I’m like oh yeah we’re married and live together and he’s literally just talking to you 😫
2024-04-03 21:03:57
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Alex ✨ :
Omg this! Is this a PDA response? I will send the sweetest text and be so 🥰 but the second they walk in instead of texting me back I’m immediately like 😬😠. It makes no sense even to me! 😫
2024-04-03 19:41:24
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Karaberry :
this is how I feel after coming home from work or shopping. I need to "Defrag" for like an hour.
2024-04-03 17:18:09
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ladyinquinnsitor :
I'm the opposite. I'm hyper verbal and my husband is really overstimulated by questions. It's so hard.
2024-04-03 21:39:30
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spiffyspino :
I wish I could say “can you please just leave me alone now” without him taking it personally but he’s neurotic-spicy too and suffers from RSD 😭
2024-04-04 00:33:33
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Queenii⋆.˚🦋༘⋆♡ :
me and my husband are both ND and he's more of a touch person then me, so it makes it hard sometimes but on the better days for me I get touchy for him.
2024-04-03 17:38:18
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Morgan Arledge :
this made me feel so seen. I cried. thank you
2024-04-03 20:37:15
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Romero Aster :
*Pikachu stare*
2024-04-05 07:36:11
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🌞sunny :
this just validated me in ways i didn’t know i needed with struggling to connect with my partner. thank you for sharing 🤍
2024-04-03 20:17:58
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Alyssa :
It’s so weird and hard to understand, when I’m with him physically I feel so annoyed and overstimulated and then I have to text that I love him so much and I don’t know what’s wrong with me 🥲
2024-04-04 04:59:12
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MJ :
i want me and my bf to learn sign language so we don’t have to talk sometimes 😭
2024-04-04 00:46:08
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Ekko :
the way I always want to talk to people but I have no energy to talk to people and it upsets me so much
2024-04-07 13:33:45
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God’s Silliest Goose :
Very sorry to all of my autists but that would literally hurt my feelings so bad I could not recover
2024-04-03 21:07:39
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Gabri :
Thank you for this video. I often take it really personally when my man seems super off and I ask if he’s ok and he responds with an annoyed tone and I don’t get it. So thank you
2025-01-13 02:41:20
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Spoonfull of Sara 🦓🥄🧂 :
I yelled at my husband this morning for asking me what I was doing while I was scrolling my phone….he saw what I was doing 😂
2024-04-03 22:58:50
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