Steph the Attachment Professor
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bark.brooks :
I thought you were gonna say the hardest thing about marriage is deciding what to eat for dinner every night 😂
2024-04-04 03:46:07
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Michelle Renee, Intimacy Coach :
When you are hurt by your partner and have to choose to trust them again. It’s so hard. Learn to give it time and try to keep some connection.
2024-04-04 03:26:18
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Nuanced Millennial :
The hardest part is doing all the things I’m supposed to do as an anxiously attached person, and still being treated like I’m only criticizing because they can’t handle that they did anything wrong.
2024-04-04 16:38:41
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Palizi :
I agree! The hardest part is to notice your internal state and communicate that with your partner. e.g. I’m frustrated. I’m sad. This thing that you did made me happy…
2024-04-04 16:37:20
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Ambiii :
I love marriage 💗
2024-04-05 02:15:14
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KCalquin 📚 :
Sooooo, hypothetically speaking… what’re we replacing those things with? 🧐
2024-04-04 03:06:08
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lynn.lombardi :
I find the hardest part of marriage is having the energy to fully invest in the same person every single day.
2024-04-04 15:11:47
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Shy_2021 :
we be communicating but there is LIMITED COMPREHENSION.
2024-04-05 02:09:34
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🧶 Purple 🧶 :
This! This is so hard. You hit the nail on the head. That and division of labor if any partner comes in w preconceived notions of gender roles. Unavoidable when you bring kids into the picture.
2024-04-04 03:17:42
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noticeyourneighbor :
I have hated marriage. But I am in a relationship with a dating partner who is helping me stop these patterns. I’m anxious and he is avoidant but we are healing
2024-04-04 03:17:07
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lilo :
I have been married for only almost 3 years but I've noticed that even though we have very good communication skills it's still not enough. ✨communication✨ is very important thing to have in
2024-04-04 20:12:03
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please dont give up ♥️ :
people don't realize the work it takes to keep active understanding and growing while living. when ur alone you only have you to grow for. but in a relationship it's growing for eachother too.
2024-04-05 06:10:59
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RedKarbear25 :
Nailed it
2024-04-04 13:24:26
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carly8marie💜🇨🇦 :
A lot of ppl said marriage isn’t hard unless you’re doing it wrong or with the wrong person, I disagree- that’s not always the case. It’s hard sometimes to coordinate, esp as someone with adhd and -
2024-04-05 02:33:17
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morrigan_8989 :
I think the hardest part is when you start changing learning to love the change
2024-04-04 03:39:31
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Michelle Renee, Intimacy Coach :
This is the best, most realistic, response I’ve seen to this question.
2024-04-04 03:25:09
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Fishyfishy248 :
Communication
2024-04-05 22:44:10
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𝕋𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕚𝕥𝕒 ☝︎🏇☝︎ :
just wanted to say your eyeliner is so pretty 😭❤️
2024-04-04 19:32:22
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Bobbie Smith :
Yes!
2024-04-04 06:31:55
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bambi :
is it possible to have different attachment styles with different people 🤔
2024-04-04 03:05:03
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arum :
Imo it means “I don’t want to admit I’m in a bad rltp so I have to find a reason and it’s that it’s hard for everyone.”
2024-06-23 21:11:01
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shivrin.ur.timberz :
Oh yeah. 8 years here— just recently have been able to be a bit vulnerable and it’s absolutely beautiful but I feel like I’m vibrating with anxiety and maybe even shame😂
2024-05-22 13:21:23
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tiffanyvanwinkle18 :
How do you get rid of the moves? Would love a more detailed video. This was very helpful
2024-04-04 04:30:38
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