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Ann :
My question is: what do you do with all of that anger?
2024-04-09 04:11:00
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jenniferbestulic :
yep, this is why I talk to my parents less and less as I get older. I can't make myself put the show on anymore.
2024-04-09 02:08:29
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Dork dork :
You literally have to choose being authentic to yourself or a relationship with them. They can’t or won’t allow for both. I sold myself out for a very.long.time. 😔
2024-04-08 22:38:51
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AliveIsBrave :
this is the best description I've ever heard for why I'm exhausted after even short visits with my mom.
2024-04-09 03:13:05
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Bethelight :
Thank you for explaining this so well. I’m trying to heal my inner child and I really needed to hear this today. I never had words for what I’m
2024-04-08 23:55:43
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lawyer_jen :
Oh damn. Never had it described in a way that made so much sense.
2024-04-09 00:02:00
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😎 :
that's why I stopped texting my mom, it was so hard to not be able to answer her 'how are you' honestly
2024-04-09 16:11:49
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California Barbie :
The hardest part has been carrying the “blame” for the relationship not thriving. My mom will never admit it’s her actions and not mine.
2024-04-10 05:05:16
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Merlsherl :
Yes. Yes to all of this. My mother is an agent of chaos
2024-04-09 06:40:09
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angelninja31 :
and my mom wonders why I don't call or visit more than a few times a year
2024-04-07 00:38:18
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jesssaha :
I’m low contact with my mom. She asked for things to go back to how they were, spending time together, etc AND THEN, MAYBE improve our relationship. Completely backwards
2024-04-10 13:39:39
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Sarah Lou :
Is this why we have the same three conversations every single time we talk (always about her, of course)
2024-04-10 17:59:06
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user2857451944112 :
The septessed anger caused me pain in my body.
2024-04-09 02:33:25
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sasha :
My Mom didn’t tell me my grandma was dying and I told her it hurt me bc I didn’t get to see her before she passed. She refused to acknowledge my feelings. I don’t know what to do. It’s a pattern.
2024-04-09 02:18:42
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user5826553799667 :
This is a great explanation. Those with healthy parents can not understand how much lifting we do in these relationships
2024-04-10 21:25:56
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HipboneHamCat :
every time I think about reaching out I think about how exhausting and unfulfilling my relationship is going to be.
2024-04-09 02:15:40
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mhina_moriah :
My parents know that I am alive, my garden is alive and I eat food/occasionally leave the house. Anything important does not reach them anymore.
2024-04-07 12:03:42
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hufflepuff'n'pass :
wow this hit home..
2024-04-06 16:24:05
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BellJazzi :
it's been almost a year since I went no contact and I've never felt more myself in my life.
2024-04-11 13:19:41
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Artist DAO :
Blind loyalty and the fakeness is why I went no contact. I couldn't handle it because the self abandonment was painful. ❤🥰
2024-04-09 04:30:38
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🍹Queenie 🧭 :
I will share this with someones parents if they'll share it with my mom.
2024-04-10 22:54:51
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AmeAnn :
Im realizing that I’m now in my first week of probably not talking to my mom for a very long time…it’s freeing and scary.
2024-04-10 23:20:02
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sergeantlemonhead :
All my mom and I can talk about are books that we are reading. She refuses to go deep with me and I’m the only child and don’t want to go no contact. It’s exhausting.
2024-04-10 22:48:06
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genXgemini :
i finally stopped calling my dad bc the fakeness was becoming too heavy. luckily once I stopped calling him, he never called me either. 2.5 years now. very peaceful tho
2024-04-09 02:23:45
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