jfab 🇨🇦
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Melloyellow :
That’s one thing I’ve noticed about abusers, their first response towards misunderstandings is always offense instead of understanding.
2024-04-07 00:35:16
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Roxy2.0 :
I said: I can explain it to you, but I CANNOT understand it for you….crickets 😂
2024-04-07 01:22:34
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Storm :
wish I could repost this twice
2024-05-29 17:10:47
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Erin O'Grady :
They weaponize EVERYTHING
2024-04-07 00:32:10
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Killerbunny :
I hate saying "I feel" and then the person is like "I didn't say that" or "I didn't do that".. thats nice, I still have feelings
2024-04-11 21:35:25
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Mrsb02911 :
He just repeatedly interrupts me, when I get frustrated he says “I’m just trying to understand” but he doesn’t let me finish a sentence to understand
2024-04-07 01:03:04
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No glasses 🆘🇺🇸 :
You can spend years adjusting, rationalizing, trying a new tactic. You’ll think it’s the “work” marriage takes. Get out early the moment you’re deciphering behaviors.
2024-04-08 12:59:05
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kandiz40🇨🇦 :
No Matter how nice you say something the message is received through trauma glasses or life experiences. 😳
2024-04-07 01:03:57
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Jess :
Whenever I said “I feel” it because “OMG everything is about your ‘feelings’ you’re SO intense! 🙄😤”
2024-04-08 03:00:38
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BrokenSkunk :
I’m trying to double my efforts to slow down when I speak and check myself to see if I’m being defensive or phrasing things as blame.
2024-04-07 15:03:45
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Nicole :
and also he's "allowed" to get annoyed for something simple I say, but I can NEVER be annoyed🤣 and its HIM every time.
2024-04-07 12:55:00
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Jodilynn :
This hits hard. I struggle to communicate clearly with verbally aggressive people. My husband constantly puts down my communication skills
2024-05-07 01:34:19
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Tomatotoast :
What if their clarifying questions are reductionist misrepresentations of what you are saying and they are stuck in those ideas?
2025-01-18 23:59:21
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MrsChappsMusings :
I work as a medical roleplayer, so from that context, checking how things land in the other person's world is very important
2024-05-02 10:43:26
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sarah :
this one! 16 years of over explaining just to be heard. it took him until the discard phase to finally just say the quiet part out loud— “i don’t respect you enough to listen to what you have to say”
2024-04-07 01:05:18
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MEL :
Communication issue was all I heard and it made me want to yell lol
2024-04-10 11:40:42
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Rat B@stard :
Nothing got under my skin more than him telling me to communicate as if i hadnt said the same thing a million times in a million different ways.
2024-04-07 05:49:51
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HattifnattMammsen :
i have been told that i have said so many ting, that i have not said and does not match my values. I often tend to go silent, i dont choose to but it happens unvalenterily, when i dont feel heard/safe
2024-04-10 10:01:05
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