Boundaries are for YOURSELF not rules for other people
2024-04-10 00:08:20
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Lee :
People want to feel needed/useful. If anything, I keep urging my friends to use me because we all are conditioned to do things alone
2024-04-10 01:25:44
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user510654525603 :
I feel like this mentality is more about one sided relationships/ friendships where one person is always taking.
2024-04-09 22:46:33
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Smo :
These "boundaries" kill the best parts of having a community
2024-04-10 02:46:05
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Cabilishi :
This is why I’m very exclusive with the people I chose to call “friends”. We can all say whatever whenever without judgement and do the same for eachother while ALWAYS communicating
2024-04-09 23:10:39
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Opossum_Daddy :
In Psychology 1 we learned that asking an acquaintance/new friend for a small favor and they say yes it can increase their trust in you. It has to be small tho
2024-04-10 00:06:01
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angelique :
today years old when i learned how to pronounce reciprocity
2024-04-21 09:44:24
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Shannon 💋 :
I asked a friend for a favor and she said “ask everyone else first and if they say no I’ll help you”. Never spoke to her again.
2024-04-10 02:44:54
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abigail_mill :
Yes yes yes.
2024-04-10 02:33:07
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Kleets :
I do sooo much for my friends like we should all help each other
2024-04-09 23:07:06
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Lizzard :
I do legit everything my “friend” asked I asked her to check on my Mawmaw’s after a tornado and she wouldn’t bc she was uncomfortable she’s met my family we were friends 21 years
2024-04-09 21:34:04
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Madeline Bonn :
This hyper individuality we are currently in is so bad
2024-04-09 22:12:47
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Riley :
This.
2024-04-09 22:40:16
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kathryn :
some people really need to hear this.
2024-04-10 01:29:14
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jame :
I totally agree with this. I think sometimes people are reading far too much into what a friend might mean by something. It’s truly not always about you!
2024-04-09 21:13:36
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Sunny Ruiz :
Thank you for talking about this!!! Everyone has become so self focused to “protect” themselves.
2024-04-11 21:24:29
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bbk :
I find it difficult to determine whether or not I’m annoying or if I’m just relying on my community
2024-04-09 21:10:29
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. :
My own sister acting like I was being entitled when I asked her for a ride to the ER when I had a brain injury 🤪
2024-04-10 03:13:28
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Dear Nina | Friendship Podcast :
I agree with you! The asking if you have space… to be a friend… is so over the top.
2024-04-10 03:18:39
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_roaming_radfords_ :
100% depends on the friendship
2024-04-10 01:02:24
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kaylie :
we need to suffer as a society a little
2024-04-10 03:13:13
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TinyMango :
I adopted the habit of asking if people have space immediately and it felt kind, but yeah.. I see how it impacted me over time
2024-04-10 03:29:47
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Sunshine :
I asked my friend who lived 3 miles away to watch my dogs for me while I was out of town for 5 days. just check in at my house. he wanted over 300$ and didn't even show up the first day
2024-04-09 23:59:18
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Chandra :
this is why i don’t have many friends. im friendly with everyone but know who my people are and we show up first each other no matter when, what, where. you need me i got you. period.
2024-04-10 02:51:24
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Dan(ielle) :
I have a special someone I wish I could send this to
2024-04-10 01:39:57
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