Yet these two attract each other. AND FOR WHAT?! 😅😂
2024-07-23 16:13:45
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Mistletovia :
Unfortunately I think enough exposure to an avoidant can push a securely attached person to slip into anxious attachment.
2024-08-04 12:00:16
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gia breeze :
What do we say instead? I feel like avoidants are impossible to get through..
2024-04-24 20:46:52
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SloanieCSRA :
My avoidant says I don’t know what to say, what can I say. It makes me insane.
2024-04-24 15:58:47
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Jacob :
It’s not my responsibility to worry about how someone might perceive what I tell them. The important thing is communication. Nobody should have to walk on eggshells.
2024-07-22 12:02:26
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markitasade :
I left . Its the best decision
2024-07-24 05:56:14
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DR34ML4ND_MAVU :
Attachment theory is so flawed it allows narcissists to learn the terminology as a way to avoid accountability.
2024-07-31 15:02:48
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Amore Monet :
Avoidant = narcissistic
2024-08-17 21:07:06
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Mmw0204 :
Then I’d end up apologizing. Sorry I asked for your help. How selfish of me. Then all was well. 🙄 Glad I’m getting divorced..
2024-04-11 11:20:42
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Linz11x11 :
If my person cared about me then we would understand that it not you vs me but you and me vs the problem…
2024-07-17 22:04:32
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Kelly Shannon :
how do you talk to an avoidant then? it's impossible basically
2024-07-22 02:52:55
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skipperdoodee :
Avoidant ppl always get demonized in these dynamics & I never hear creators talking about how anxious ppl are the most manipulative style 😒
2024-07-29 21:25:43
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katie g. :
This goes past avoidant when they do nothing to talk or fix, regardless of communication style, and blame you for everything, even irrelevant, and leave subject untouched. That’s why we keep asking 😤
2024-07-25 16:56:11
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ella :
🤯 word for word is exactly how my relationship is! for once I felt seen! thank you!!!!!
2024-05-13 15:28:29
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Morgz :
I honestly don’t think avoidants can be in a happy relationship. They have to change/fix their attachment in order for anyone to be happy
2024-07-25 19:29:47
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Tortilla :
Yeah but only the anxious people will read it (me) and the avoidant… well 🤣
2024-08-01 04:31:16
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𝓢𝓪𝓼𝓱𝓪 :
I’ve always been anxious. I turned into anxious-avoidant to save myself. I’ve been single past 4 years working on myself & never been happier
2024-07-20 15:43:58
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Moon🌙Shoes :
This video tells you a whole mathematical equation except for the end result
2024-05-21 01:37:55
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stefw/anf :
As the avoidant one I'm left reeling because it feels like it comes out of the blue. When I can't spend time with him it's not about him not being important.
2024-07-24 04:35:28
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Barrysdaughter717 :
Just read the book Attached, develop a secure attachment style and find a secure partner. ✌🏾
2024-07-27 16:14:02
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DownSystemofA :
It’s funny cause I used the be the anxious one & my spouse the avoidant. The roles flipped & I can’t stand him
2024-07-25 07:46:19
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Lisa Howell- GA Realtor :
This is my marriage for the past 14 years! We are currently separated.
2024-07-22 14:56:24
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Rachael Rae Robertson :
I struggle to see the difference between this vs being with a covert/overt narcissist. Could you explain that?
2024-08-01 06:17:42
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Manuel Lorta :
OMG!, where have you been??!!
glad that I came across your content again, lots of love all the way from Ciudad Juárez, Chihuahua in Mexico
2024-04-10 21:07:25
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