Avoidant attachment=extreme selfishness. Nothing more
2024-04-11 22:24:40
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tristan fox :
so they still get 100% of what they want and the other person gets 0%. yeah, no. ✌🏻 remember, it's better to be alone than to be with someone that makes you feel alone. it's them or you. choose you!
2024-04-10 23:16:54
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constance 🧸ྀི 𖥔 ࣪ ᥫ᭡ꗃ⋆࣪. :
I don’t ever want to date an avoidant againnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
2024-04-11 07:38:11
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Caro. ✨ :
NOOOW i know why my avoidant ex wanted to be friends and said he didn’t want to lose me. no sir !! buh bye.
2024-04-11 00:40:14
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Global-living :
Say it with me — you don’t get the benefits without the responsibility!
2024-04-12 13:32:51
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😎 :
But they struggle with commitment so how can they keep you as an option for the future? they’re so confused.
2024-04-10 22:43:10
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5ullit :
Bro this avoidant thing gotta be illegal..
2024-04-12 16:06:16
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jeffemer5562 :
I'm not an option!
2024-04-10 22:27:12
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hillarym414 :
yes and as an anxious attachment person it’s so hard to set boundaries and close off that access to me
2024-04-12 12:34:57
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user5804650480794 :
I recognize a lot of this in myself and seeing the amount of hate for avoidants make me have my back up even more. it's not a strategy to hurt people. it's not on purpose
2024-05-05 16:01:52
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zoë :
these are just making me mad now 💀
2024-04-10 22:55:32
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lilboobycall :
this is exactly what they did to me and i thought that having some of them was better than not having any at all.
2024-04-11 06:13:28
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Leopard_113- :
"I was willing to throw away our bond & friendship because we wouldn't be in a relationship". Yup because he didn't deserve all the benefits without the attachment. I'd rather be alone than suffer.
2024-04-11 00:58:31
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spacelotus :
This is so difficult, my avoidant had a really traumatic childhood. So I completely understand, but also need my needs met too :(
2024-04-13 15:17:03
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Nicole K :
…they always pull the friend card when they leave me. But I don’t wanna be friends. I want more but they keep using me and everyone else then leaving
2024-04-12 14:01:29
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Hannah✨ :
They even suck at friendship
2024-04-11 02:55:01
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Autom :
As an avoidant… 6 and 7 aren’t true for us, those sound more like narcissistic traits rather than avoidant
2024-04-12 06:13:40
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mady leigh 🌞 :
so theyre selfish and immature pretty much? lol
2024-04-10 23:29:30
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cvance1984 :
My ex broke up with me and said we could start over as “friends”. No thanks.
2024-04-11 01:11:41
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Shaeida✌🤲 💜 :
Indeed, they keep you in their circle as an ego boost. selfish and manipulation on a different level. break their cycle ✌️
2024-04-19 19:55:27
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† :
i’m dealing with this right now what should i do?:/
2024-04-11 03:57:10
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MITTY :
Maybe it’s because I was previously avoidant that I prefer to deal with them as opposed to anxious attachment, but they hatred toward avoidants is crazy
2024-04-11 23:20:45
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🌪 :
no more dating an avoidant attachment period
2024-04-15 19:31:14
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_Aubri🚦 :
…I just want her to try one time…just once put in the effort like I did to be different
2024-04-10 23:00:50
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