Facing the Dark
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Your moms chest hair :
My poor dad had such a deep trauma bond that he also put us in his dads arms and we got assaulted as well. The older I get the more I hurt for him.
2024-04-13 02:50:38
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They're Just Words :
My mother also took us around our grandfather after what he did to her. She made sure to never ever leave us alone with him, but she still thought we "deserved to have a grandfather".
2024-05-15 07:08:56
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amanda :
Trauma bond is so hard, I still struggle till this day and I’ve been no contact for over 10 years. And now I’m trying to get over it from my abusive ex husband. It’s hard, and it’s real.
2024-04-12 23:27:09
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Jogoose :
Married and out of the house, I finally told my mom what my dad did. She went back to him less than a month later and blames us for not forgiving after he got a “brain tumor”. Went no contact finally.
2024-05-14 18:57:21
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nicole.voss20 :
I’m so proud of you for going no contact with you family. I’m a recovering addict who suffered from SA, physical, mental, and emotional abuse all from my family. I can definitely say…
2024-05-14 15:57:57
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Kelsey :
I was not abused by CSA but by physical, mental and emotional and I also was not able to cut my family off until 2022. I realized only after I became a mother how badly I have always been treated.
2024-04-12 20:43:15
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Haley :
Thank you for being vulnerable. I have a lot of guilt for letting my step dad & mother be in my child’s life from birth - 3 y/o I was conditioned to believe what happened to me was an “accident”
2024-05-14 14:37:26
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Undecided and Stuff 🍉 :
I've been NC for 13+yrs & I still crave a family that loves & supports me. I'm almost 50 & it a hole I will always have. I'm happy you made the break
2024-04-20 12:28:24
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nat | life after trauma :
I didn’t go no contact with my abuser until I was an adult and it’s always used against me. “But you were best friends.” “But we were at your wedding.”
2024-04-18 13:07:55
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Beau Same :
I hated but LOVED my bio mom, even through the abuse. She ended her life last month. The trauma ends but we'll never reconnect at the same time
2024-05-14 16:06:32
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ankylosaurus :
i went nc with my dad for three years but lost my sisters too. he went into cardiac arrest, i begrudgingly called him, hes still on deaths door and i don't want to lose tge rest of my family again
2024-05-14 16:43:53
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🍉𝐅𝐚𝐢🍉 :
Like even just taking the comments at face value…she’s trying to claim she’s not in the wrong bc 1. She let you sleep over somewhere? 2. They put the burden of persecution on a minor?
2024-05-24 23:09:02
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Hunter. :
Social workers came in bc they thought my mum was at risk, only to realise I'm at risk bc of her & she's abused me my whole life. The social worker told me (1/?)
2024-05-14 22:48:30
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Sue :
I went no contact with my parent very recently despite being abused and I felt so guilty talking about anything openly because I hadn’t cut them out/they met my child
2024-04-13 00:46:44
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Avey 🤍 :
I went no contact for a year with my parents. Since then they haven’t done anything to push me away again. Any time they try to put me down I will not take it bc I’m not a child
2024-05-14 13:55:41
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Kaili Kendall :
zero judgement at all hun. unless someone's been through it, they can't judge. can't even imagine how hard it been. You are amazing for going no contact
2024-05-15 17:28:55
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• Shaniice 💚🍉 :
My brother tried to say he didn’t r me because I let him hold my daughter. Didn’t mention that our mother knew NOTHING so I had no choice. My mama passed 7yrs ago never knowing.
2024-04-14 11:16:35
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bailando_cilantroo :
In an odd way, it’s very comforting knowing there’s others who have gone through something similar. It’s so hurtful.
2024-05-16 00:50:18
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Billy_Maddison :
i remember bits and pieces of stuff that happened to me as a kid and i realise more the longer ive been away from my family. legit scared of therapy incase it uncovers something and its worse
2024-05-15 11:41:28
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Brooklynn :
i’m so sorry
2024-04-14 03:54:26
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wolverinee💝 :
im very proud of you. I did what you did to. helped me, they didn't want to fix it so I cut them off completely
2024-04-20 14:49:55
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Ally Nichole :
Not fully no contact but almost she(mom) called and asked if me and my daughter would come over for a BBQ. I wanted to say yes but I know that I'd leave miserable and crying.
2024-05-14 15:18:53
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kkiimm :
this is a Perfect 👌🏼 explanation /example of trauma bond. I could go on about similarity- I have been thru but in full it would be 4 Books! am Healing from DV/trauma bondS /sexual pred on My Family
2024-05-14 04:08:05
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MzworkOnIt :
I went no contact asked the hospital to keep them out lo and behold they walked in I almost hemorrhaged and died so I went mute even more.
2024-05-11 17:56:12
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Elizabet🍉🇵🇸 :
I still struggle to not reach out to my father I still love him and want him to be proud of me but I also know he's not who I thought he was when I was a kid and it's not love it's trauma
2024-05-14 15:59:57
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