I had a guy ask me if there were “any red flags” during a similar break off conversation and I said no… frankly because I didn’t want it easier for him to hide certain aspects from future women.
2024-04-15 00:11:45
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Alytiger :
My friend sends an exit interview google doc.
2024-04-15 00:07:54
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mel :
in my experience they just ghost you and then they post with a girlfriend 2 months later
2024-04-15 00:16:43
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kiara🐌🍓 :
i once told someone to their face that i didn’t want to see them anymore bc they didn’t have pillow cases and they slept on dirty yellow pillows every night (unprompted but they needed to know tbh)
2024-04-15 02:14:39
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S :
I will explain if asked but most people just ghost because they can’t communicate or be respectful
2024-04-16 02:22:49
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Gemini.x :
I broke things off early on recently and I gave him a COMPLETELY canned reason when I could fill a whole spreadsheet with reasons why 😬
2024-04-15 23:27:41
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Leah Rosenberg :
I asked once, and I got the generic “it’s not you, it’s me” 💀
2024-04-15 04:12:41
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Thunder is typing…. :
I also never want to know but I’ve been asked a few times and after making sure that they really want to know, I just tell them straight up 🤷🏻♀️
2024-04-16 05:44:08
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lucki620 :
idk i just flip around the ipad and say “its just going to ask you a couple of questions”
2024-04-16 06:37:35
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Miss E :
I ask, if I value their opinion. I've had a few ask me for feedback and I gave it. I'm likely autistic so that might be that 🙃
2024-04-15 02:04:18
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TheViolentKat :
I would legit never tell someone why I don't like them, especially if it's for a dumb reason 😭
2024-04-15 02:44:20
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whateverwhateverwhateva :
i asked & they said "if i were you i would obsess if i knew & i would obsess if i didn't so i am not going to tell you" so i pushed a little harder & they said i used too many spices on pizza LOL
2024-04-15 01:32:11
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Fyodor Soikin :
Wait, what's wrong with gathering data in a spreadsheet?
2024-04-15 04:35:19
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tish-urt 🍉 :
i lie… i very much lie bc they’re things that i don’t want them to be insecure about… but it did turn me off
2024-04-15 22:21:57
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Danielle - slow fashion :
Ok I haven’t but I would loveee to know I’m always curious
2024-04-15 02:34:13
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M :
when i've asked, it's been dodged. sometimes i've been told later that it was bc i'm chronically ill but no one wants to say that. when i've been asked, i give an honest, brief, not unkind answer.
2024-04-15 01:26:49
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Angel_Ace14 :
after reassuring them several times that I wouldn't be mad and was genuinely confused cause I thought it was going well they did tell me that it was because I'm not visibly all that girly
2024-04-18 22:14:23
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Justcallme_AL :
but I am collecting data
2024-04-14 23:59:36
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SavyJewls :
I would say you can but in my experience if someone is asking for a reason it’s so they can try and debate you back into the relationship so for me I would engage in such a conversation
2024-04-15 03:57:12
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Shawna :
I actually refused to tell an ex why I was breaking up with him because the actual reason was he was dumb and I actually couldn’t come up with a good enough excuse. 😭
2024-04-15 00:13:33
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Marianna :
I’ve never had that experience. I think it was either ghost or get ghosted.
2024-04-15 00:37:51
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