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Why are we always making accommodations for the avoidaints?
2024-04-29 07:38:01
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Avocado 🎱 :
Then I got the, "You cannot control me". 🫤 like, I certainly wasn't trying to, my man.
2024-04-16 21:30:04
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Angela :
It's great when we're together but I barely hear from him when we're not. Usually only hear from him if I text first so I try not to and see what he does. Didn't get a text for 10 hours..
2024-04-16 22:19:44
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christalwilton :
when we're together it's beyond perfect, but he hardly texts me (but he used to all the time), it's been hard learning that that doesn't mean he doesn't like me or is annoyed, still takes some time
2024-05-01 03:52:23
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keithmcc0709 :
Yes. Cater to their every need and let them have every reason to dip out of the relationship when they please. They deserve to be alone.
2024-04-16 22:45:28
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DoJie :
Welp, jokes on me. they don't read if the message is too long. 😢
2024-05-02 16:10:12
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glowupmama💜 :
This is so helpful! I have to remind myself, not to expect others to communicate exactly like I do…and that’s not there to make me feel less valued
2024-04-17 14:39:33
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Birdy :
don't give up on them in the beginning stages of getting to know them you have to be patient...my avoidant guy has taught me so much about myself and to be patient in a positive way. they deserve
2024-05-23 18:46:47
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ChosenChildOfGod77 :
Catch up in a few weeks???😳
2024-04-17 20:07:35
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ammttt333 :
why is all the advice for the anxiously attached and no advice for the avoidant, who causes so much of this damage
2024-05-31 06:25:52
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Felicia :
I'm anxious, he's avoidant. I told him that I think he is, showed him a video and he walked away, dismissing everything. we both have to acknowledge how we are first b4 going to the next level.
2024-04-19 15:34:38
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Belen ✨Sovereign|Latina✨ :
This is great but I genuinely want to know why the avoidant is behaving the way they are and what’s their thought process behind it so how would I ask that in a conscious way?
2024-05-01 14:39:31
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Anna :
I only have one question-all the “instead of this” statements are they really that bad? Or are they bad to use with an avoidant?
2024-04-17 12:32:59
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Zoeternalife :
It takes a lot of understanding on both sides.
2024-05-31 10:35:17
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Brook :
Ive tried several different approaches to it over the last 2-1/2 years of us coming back to each other than being distant again. Each time he was the same and I’d try to change the way I’d approach it
2024-05-28 21:27:11
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chloë :
This makes me realise I’m more healed than I thought! I tend to say the green things, but they still ghost & avoid so gonna leave them to it :) 👋🏻
2024-04-22 15:28:13
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Tamlin😈 :
I gave space and always tried to meet his needs.Ending with me all drained and empty.Nevermore
2024-04-26 17:13:32
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Brittney :
The issue is most avoidant people are not aware of why they are avoidant or when it is happening so there’s virtually no communication :(
2024-04-23 00:46:29
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darlinliz :
I'm soo glad I found your page. And just in time cause I've just started dating an Avoidant. It's not easy. 😭
2024-06-07 05:12:40
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Nickypoo :
I talked like this and he still dipped LOL
2024-05-29 00:21:17
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sslqldqk :
thanks for being gentle and gracious. this app is brutal to people who've been severely abused
2024-04-17 00:49:19
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texan_in_colorado :
Tried it all. It all failed. I'm not a priority to her so I became a priority to me.
2024-05-01 03:24:49
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robinmariaschermer :
This is so good❤️
2024-05-01 17:19:37
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Jana Oliveira :
Don't know if I got ghosted or if he's taking in consideration...But the work of wording is in a such high level (audhd here) is so hard that I may rather prefer to be single than with an avoidant 😭
2024-04-16 21:20:09
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Bella 🇨🇦 :
I’ve tried to communicate with them in a better way but still got discarded bc they felt uncomfortable. I’ve done my work and will continue healing ❤️🩹
2024-04-17 04:54:45
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