when I realize I actually affected someone’s life I’m shocked
2024-04-19 00:15:59
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Empress :
I genuinely don’t think ppl feel this way about me.
2024-04-19 03:08:59
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Ki’el :
Bro. I have this exact same problem and I cannot Internalize that I exist and matter to these people
2024-04-18 17:59:05
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lil prince vert :
still struggling with this
2024-04-21 18:38:00
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Katie 🥴 :
same 🫠
2024-04-22 03:21:22
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Chasity🩷 :
You put this issue I had in to words perfectly bc I never could explain why I had this problem and where it actually stems from 🤦🏽♀️
2024-04-21 17:40:01
34
shaywilliamsss🇳🇬 :
Or I convince myself that everyone is always against me
2024-04-18 20:47:36
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HoneyYello 🍯 :
I’m going through this very thing right now
2024-04-18 17:04:33
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Neada Rena :
I’ve conditioned myself into this because everyone I cared about has made me feel they can care less 😭 I’m learning that ppl do love me tho.
2024-04-20 19:24:28
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Mother Goth :
Yes! It’s hard for me to think of someone loving me and seeing me the way I love and see others 😭
2024-04-19 00:24:07
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angelle_andrews :
I feel like I’ll never know when someone truly cares about me and I don’t think I’ve ever experienced it
2024-04-19 01:46:07
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goosebumpyx :
A beautiful way of thinking
2024-04-18 17:20:06
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inx :
tbh thank u for this
2024-04-18 17:06:09
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aleiawhitt :
I think this happens because at one point we were surrounded by people who didn’t care about our presence and treated us as such. So then when we come across people who do value us it’s unbelievable
2024-04-21 17:55:19
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jae :
yes
2024-04-19 13:40:40
31
nikolai (viktor's version) :
a little bit of trust and faith in your friends can go a long way. I’ve been talking abt this in therapy recently
2024-04-18 17:05:07
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aleighsia :
this just opened my eyes to the way i see the world omg. i do this.
2024-04-18 19:23:22
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AmberBrisha :
I’ll be glad when I get here.
2024-04-19 04:20:11
29
Bleudreammm :
Me too but that makes you feel so small after a while
2024-04-18 22:28:00
29
✰Chén✰ :
That’s literally how I feel and think rn lmaoo, but I think like this bc no one does what I do for them for me so I’ve just kept getting disappointed 🤷🏾♀️
2024-04-19 00:35:19
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2 Sides 🦋 :
That’s crazy, this is exactly how I think now…
2024-04-21 20:07:16
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GracieGrey🍉 :
Thank you for speaking on this 💛
2024-04-18 17:56:52
19
kelsey🥀🌸✨ :
perfectly said. this is exactly where I’m at.
2024-05-03 14:56:19
18
darren :
Deep
2024-05-01 08:50:08
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Jaleyanicole :
Its two sides to this. Because Im on the exact opposite end where I am hyper aware or anxious about if/how people perceive me😭
2024-04-19 04:27:24
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DeeDee🧚🏽| Subscribe to YT :
I love this
2024-04-19 03:33:15
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kayla ♡ :
i also don’t think ppl feel this way about me but i’m def trying to get out of that mindset
2024-04-21 10:52:04
16
Kesha Chante | Millennial Boss :
Mannnn!
2024-04-18 19:10:43
16
vashti.love :
whewwww
2024-04-21 05:07:28
15
kikocrafts07 :
Candy or very candy?)) @Emily
2024-04-18 17:06:43
14
⭑ :
it’s crazy when you really think about it
2024-04-18 23:23:05
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Treyvien :
we have the same thing. I spend a lot of time alone so it's hard to conceptualize that, but I'll write this down.
2024-04-19 02:43:09
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Joshua :
I don’t even know you, but I have to admit it’s always a pleasure when u pop up
2024-04-19 00:50:35
6
jonmosslol :
Well I will always care friend 🔥🔥🔥🔥
2024-04-18 17:18:07
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𝓀𝑒𝒾𝒶🤎 :
I’m so glad you brought this up cause it’s giving me something to think about and work on changing cause I think the same way
2024-04-18 23:23:58
5
- :
I have an issue with “out of sight out of mind” so I assume others also have the same mindset 🤔
2024-04-20 15:14:38
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isutaleh :
if only i believed this lol
2024-04-19 02:34:31
4
Anissa 🕸 :
I think there’s a third thing that ppl care but not the same or more extent you do..
2024-04-18 21:44:00
4
Dee_the_Alchemist :
People can say words in a sense that they miss you or you’re important to them and for me if it’s not shown I can’t believe them. Words are words, I need actions and to feel it
2024-04-21 17:58:34
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Cambria ❤️🔥 :
Forreal going through this! I felt like this with failed connections!
2024-04-19 08:17:44
3
My :
Please read the four agreements
2024-04-19 03:30:13
3
n i a :
Wow me too
2024-04-19 02:41:42
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Mari💓💅🏾 :
Omg I’m having the same issue rn and it’s eatingggg at me
2024-04-21 16:13:23
2
beyavi :
I struggle with this I really do be thinking nobody values me ever
2024-04-19 05:29:12
2
bri_bby24 :
SAME im still grappling with it. Its been making feel grossed out
2024-04-19 00:37:16
2
Jennalykos :
saving this as a reminder that I really do have people who value me. @Suzu
2024-04-18 18:51:21
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