@daveramsey: If someone can control all the money, they think they can control the other person. There is a high correlation between that behavior and domestic violence. I do not have an income. My wife and I have an income. It’s as much hers as it is mine—spiritually, morally, and legally. It’s not MINE, it’s OURS. When you change your language like that, it forces you set goals together. It forces you to dream together. It forces you to carry the weight together. It forces you to communicate. It creates a level of unity that nothing else will do. #marriageproblems #moneyadvice
found out my husband was living a whole double life and half of our finances were bankrolling another family, kids, mortgage, the lot
2024-04-20 17:07:18
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give_me_a_Brake :
Financial abuse for sure
2024-04-20 19:32:22
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Holly Sanders :
It’s not you Honey. It’s him. He’s a control freak.
2024-04-20 15:02:04
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Azteca956 :
She needs to get informed. Because if he dies, how much money is there, is retirement plan, life insurance?
2024-04-20 15:38:49
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Melissa Taylor :
That is my exact story! I’m47 & I have been married 20 yrs & he totally financially abused me & refused to let me know anything abt the finances. I left him last year and he left me with so much debt!
2024-04-21 15:10:26
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Sarah Presley :
She sounds like me in my abusive marriage. I got out and hopefully she does too. I used to think it was my fault too. It's him, he's the problem, not her.
2024-04-21 16:44:23
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Lainey9560 :
I asked my husband how much was in the 401k after 32 years so i know what we have for retirement. He told me he wasn’t going to tell me.
2024-04-21 18:10:04
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