definitelygotsomething
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Lauren 🫧 :
I used to doodle so I could focus in class until I got told off for not listening so instead I stared straight ahead while making up stories in my head and not listening to a word that was being said
2024-04-22 14:12:00
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The opposite of opty :
the worst thing for me is when I start going "Okay, now we focus, look at him and focus what he's saying it is important. i just missed the whole paragraph I didn't hear anything I was thinking-
2024-04-22 15:08:30
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MadameChaos :
Yeah no because when I look at the other person I'm talking to myself to maintain eyecontact but not too much because that's also rude (?) aaaand I wasn't listening to anything 😅
2024-04-23 20:20:40
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Majsoon :
I was always told to look at someone when they speak to me or give instruction but when I do my brain stops working and listening 😅 I'm better listener when I do something
2024-04-22 13:02:45
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CallMePetri :
No I’m listening I just have to turn off one of my senses to activately listen to you ie unfocusing my eyes or closing them
2024-04-24 06:09:05
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BC S :
Waaaait my coworker listens to me when she looks like that?! I always assumed it meant she was ignoring me
2024-04-22 17:21:42
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Kirsi Ilves :
I do that! Nice catch ❤️
2024-04-22 08:52:47
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SnackeryFrog :
It’s like I have to “zone in” on their mouth noises, if I look like I’m listening I’m not because I’m thinking about looking like I’m listening 😂
2024-04-23 17:01:04
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Rosa tengku 11:11 :
I always feel so guilty about it but i do try😫
2024-04-22 12:08:13
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deeeeee :
one of my friends has actually handed my own phone to me so I can play with it and actually pay attention to her talking 😅
2024-05-02 12:36:22
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Gabfm :
oh no. 😅 when i dont want to be rude and pretend im actually listenjng 😐
2024-05-07 09:14:52
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Boadicea :
Yes! I now tell ppl that I do this so they don’t misinterpret it - if I really care they get my “good” ear 😂
2024-05-01 15:08:05
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Leona🫠 :
the fact that the 1st is considered "normal" and "acceptable" says a lot....active listening doesn't matter, it only matters how you look in the moment...
2024-04-22 09:21:10
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Cyn :
@Lívia Vc
2024-06-13 13:47:48
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Chris Of the dragons :
When I’m actually listening the my eyes are closed to reduce the amount of imputs
2024-04-24 19:25:21
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Walker 1956 :
exactly,when I turn away and turn my ear than I actually focus on what the people say...if I have to pretend I do not get anything day say.
2024-04-24 08:09:01
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Andy :
urgh, I have to talk on the phone at work a lot. I consciously have to raise the pitch of my voice so I don't sound like an emotionless ass 😂
2024-04-23 18:12:25
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incompetentlife :
reacting to the things said is another thing than actually listening to what is said😭
2024-04-22 22:45:49
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White_Raven.626 :
I do the noding thing with everyone, Idc about it but damn it hurts that I have to put this show up for my bff of 5 years but not for the new bff of 1 year....
2024-04-22 20:51:31
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Paul :
Faaaark😳 I did that all through high school. It drove some teachers nuts because I kept dropping it🤣 Hand - eye coordination 🤷♂️
2024-04-22 11:52:55
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Beans :
Also talking …
2024-04-22 10:47:10
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Jay, king of J’s :
Accurate
2024-04-22 09:07:39
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