you missed the part where the avoidant did something to make the anxious feel insecure in the first place
2024-04-24 00:59:29
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Momo :
You ever talk yourself out of a good thing? Bc same
2024-04-22 18:43:46
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lil’ anxiety :
………….oh. is this what i sound like?
2024-04-23 08:42:23
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J_remy :
“Seems like u don’t believe me which makes me wonder if I believe me” thissss!
2024-04-22 19:19:29
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Mina bean :
You’re so good with words it’s crazy
2024-04-22 20:38:45
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Vanessa Ramirez :
But sometimes people stay in relationships they don’t actually want to be in
2024-04-22 21:23:17
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ms nina ᥫ᭡ :
fixed with reassurance…
2024-04-25 03:17:44
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Ohboy_here_we_go :
I have an anxious attachment style but over the last year in my relationship I have been able to talk myself down from my anxieties. I have good and bad days and it’s not always easy but it’s my
2024-04-23 00:44:27
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j.drei :
this must be how he felt ://
2024-04-23 03:57:28
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J1745 :
Am dealing with the same thing right now
2024-04-22 18:47:17
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miltotheestall2 :
100% tackle your attachment style ..but also seek out partners who are expressive w their love for you If that’s what you need
2024-04-23 18:17:12
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Icarus :
Dated an anxious attachment and yeah this is true
2024-04-22 19:49:20
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Khaled :
Yea great advice , its just 6 years late for me. But hey thats how we learn right ?
2024-04-22 19:49:01
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Huntahh :
I think it’s funny because a lot of people will say the right person will make you feel comfortable and not anxious but it can be the right person but because of everything else that’s happend before
2024-04-23 08:13:15
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Sargasm :
FINALLY! I GOT AN ANXIOUS GIRLFRIEND. And she is constantly asking me every single day "is everything alright", and then I try to make her sure everyt
2024-05-15 14:55:12
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Dylan :
please take this advice. i only ask you because you threaten to leave all the time and it hurts me. i should finally get to feel certain
2024-06-03 14:52:28
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kai :
this is a huge part of why my last relationship ended. i couldn’t do anything right because it was constantly doubted, my love, my attraction, my happiness, my existence entirely. and it came out in
2024-04-23 06:13:26
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kiki🇩🇴 :
but with friends, what if theyre just tolerating and talking to me bc i keep talking to them but they wouldnt mind if i wasnt apart of their life anymore
2024-04-22 21:46:04
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Danny :
used to do this with my bf but he said “whenever u wanna ask if i still love u, just tell me u love me instead, i wouldnt spend all my time with you if i didnt think you were worth all of it”
2024-05-06 07:17:47
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Will :
Having to constantly validate and make someone feel secure is exhausting especially when there was nothing that caused it
2024-04-29 10:29:53
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ADRIANHOMIEG :
Just cried my eyes out
2024-05-05 10:39:36
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Funbbog :
Okay but how to fix?
2024-05-29 13:47:42
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lai :
oh me core
2024-05-01 05:29:33
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Tater :
As an avoidant, being with an anxious attachment is….i try my best to comfort but sometimes they go so low to feel secure
2024-05-06 02:55:41
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