Dr. Nicole LePera
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Wednesday 24 April 2024 14:51:59 GMT
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mango :
not accepting reassurance is an interesting way of putting it. i feel like they totally can't see it.
2024-04-24 16:35:11
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verahino :
This is too accurate it's scary, literally the same situation and response 😭
2024-04-24 14:57:13
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John Ryan Adcock :
oh emails? she hates us, she really wants us to move out so she can feel more secure. imma go ahead and gather my things and sneak away so she doesn't get hurt by me
2025-04-04 20:50:13
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Wander_Reid :
Is hypervigilance caused by narcissistic or abusive relationships? Bc this is me now after leaving a narcissistic marriage. I’m constantly over explaining & checking if people are “okay” or mad at me.
2024-04-24 16:04:59
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🎀 Jessica Anne 🎀 :
I want to be there for this person, but navigating what they read into situations is really exhausting. It makes me feel like everything I say is heavy.
2024-04-24 16:20:40
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Cameo🩵 :
Why was this so personal lol
2024-04-24 15:38:45
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Ellie :
i'm the other one. i try to reassure and still say ily but lord sometimes i only get frustrated because ive already told 3 times im not angry. NOW i am lol
2024-04-24 15:57:52
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Art By Jessica Jewett :
This is my biggest trauma reaction. If I feel even remotely unsafe, my hypervigilance is almost an out of body experience.
2024-04-26 07:01:05
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Asia :
y is this me? 🤦🏾♀️
2024-10-26 13:50:34
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wholesomeoatmeal :
Why do I have this? I’m trying to understand why I’m this way, I want to be easygoing 🥺
2024-04-24 17:27:00
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Ava _ :
me. perpetually gaslit by my parents. so I keep freaking out thinking things aren't OK when I'm being told it's ok.
2024-04-24 16:44:25
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Nope ain’t got my name :
What if there is no reassurance? Just constant pointing out little mistakes.
2024-06-16 14:12:48
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Shelby Sunshine :
Is this a story about me?
2024-04-24 15:25:25
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cokainenosejobs :
Oh no this is me..
2024-04-25 00:45:13
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Mads :
i think the biggest difference between over explaining and defensiveness/finding excuses is motive and awareness
2024-04-25 05:51:17
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Erin Sanchez :
This is totally me
2024-04-29 19:05:12
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Gwen :) :
Why I am I like this in all my friendships though:(
2024-04-27 19:36:20
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AJ :
adds to list *work on my hypervigilance issues in therapy* lol I definitely do this
2024-04-28 14:23:19
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Kain :
As someone that struggles with this, for me the biggest help is the way my partner words stuff. "Hey baby let's try to get in the habit of locking the doors at night please" Is a lot better for me
2024-04-24 20:43:25
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Cinamon :
How do I fix this
2024-05-10 14:22:59
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libbaration :
The accuracy!
2024-06-19 11:12:00
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Blondiegirl33 :
what causes this?
2024-04-30 19:22:30
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ForestEnigma :
My over explaining sounds like excuses. How do I make that stop?
2024-04-26 22:19:17
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Jesforest🦊🌲 :
This kind of defensiveness and centering of insecurities can be exhausting to live with. I’ve found myself tiptoeing around it in the past.
2024-05-05 15:40:05
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GlamGuruGina :
I hate being so messed up .
2024-04-29 14:33:48
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