@kators88: Replying to @Jess its for science at this point. Thank you for helping us explain @Jay Fillmore #vulnerable #manvsbear #bearvsman #patriarchy #patriarchyproblems #parents #parentsoftiktok #parenting #husbandwife #MomsofTikTok #storytime #qa #loveofmylife #modesty #interesting #itsforscience
the privilege to live without mundane, daily automatic fear
2024-04-25 02:40:03
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I never realized that all this is also part of our mental load. Personal safety. It’s exhausting.
2024-04-25 10:47:17
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Katysings33 :
Ask him how he’d feel wearing an opposing team jersey in the cheap seats at a playoff game. Alone.
2024-04-25 03:34:22
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Love :
When he said “I’d feel angry” the unexpected ping of feeling being seen I felt…yes, that is a constant undertone when I speak with men about this stuff 💗
2024-04-25 12:55:11
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Army Veteran :
I think- is it safe to stop at this gas station, grocery store...is it too late in the day
2024-04-25 14:36:40
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witkowskik3 :
I’m loving the conversations you two are having. Been sharing them with my husband.
2024-04-25 02:23:13
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Cedars&Agates :
what about being warned by mom as a pre-teen about that one uncle not to be alone with at the family reunion
2024-04-25 03:41:43
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yourfriendrainy 🌧️ :
Thank you to him for being open and for being part of the conversation.
2024-04-25 19:48:33
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Niffer :
I love how understanding he is and is getting it, most males are not like this unfortunately. You got a good one 🥰
2024-04-25 04:33:17
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Kim :
I’ve felt like this since I was 15. I’m so exhausted. 😩😩😩
2024-04-26 13:55:22
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BubberTheBluePit :
I was like he’s going to say the Roman Empire
2024-04-25 17:53:10
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Malinda :
The poor man looks like he’s contemplated the universe in the last three days. So many green flags. You found a good one!
2024-04-28 02:31:12
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Wowsocool :
I wear a dress at a bus stop and you can see all the men in the cars staring, even with families and wives inside
2024-05-30 07:49:46
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Selah :
He just thinks about all the stuff he has to do. That’s ALL??? My brain is imploding.
2024-04-25 03:13:14
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AlexandreaTiktok :
Green flag 🥰 Men it's not that he agrees it's that he LISTENS! Girl found a keeper
2024-04-25 15:16:52
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Liisa Lee :
Thank you both for healthily confronting this conversation and lens of thoughts. Thank you both. 🫶💜
2024-04-25 03:02:50
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Claire McLean :
Just think how much would get done if ALL we had to think about was the things have to do and achieve....
2024-04-25 22:46:51
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WitteBug :
The acknowledgement and understanding he gives brings me hope
2024-04-25 03:03:29
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NeneYaaMilwaukee777 :
Got in the car with a childhood friend and immediately locked the doors. He laughed. 1 of 4 boys & had never considered the necessity of this.
2024-04-25 06:02:18
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GaGa0330🏳️🌈🇺🇸 :
I love how you have wonderful communication.
2024-04-25 14:13:36
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Heather Stephens :
Why do these make me want to cry???
2024-04-25 17:45:07
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Vickey :
I love this conversation & realization of what women feel. I'm in fear every time myself or my daughters leave the house.Even if it's just to the store!I've bought all my girls pepper spay!
2024-04-25 03:52:11
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revzorena :
It became extreme for me when I had our daughter. Omg. She is 18 now. Years of that underlying hyper vigilance- it’s exhausting.
2024-04-25 11:44:00
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Roofio :
Can you ask him his thought process in going for a run outside? (Self defense weapons he brings, clothing and path strategy, etc)
2024-04-25 02:47:57
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