The few Chinese men I have met in my life are so sweet and respectful. But obviously the women in China would know the China men better. So I have no idea lol
2026-02-04 15:30:53
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Maryam Ib :
I live in Sichuan province and u guys the girls here live literally like queens , all they have to do is exist in the men’s life , like literally, men takes care of financial stuff , house choirs..etc
2025-04-05 17:22:36
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xinsemm :
One of my chinese male friends cooked for me😭 when i barely know him?? he made jiaozi from scrartch ?? crazy and so sweet
2024-04-27 06:34:57
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J Y :
Chinese American woman here. I was Taught husband gives all salary to wife and receive a pocket money. My Chinese Dad spoiled my Chinese mom. Whoever had time( usually off days) dad/mom would cook and did household chores. Not 50/50 but NO expectations of woman to do everything. Always told “Happy mom, happy dad.” It’s true. Happy wife, happy life!
2025-06-18 20:19:16
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fatetassim :
I saw this in a korean tv show once! China men are the sweetest and would help with chores, korean and japanese men were treated like kings by their mothers and wives
2024-04-27 23:53:33
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Nimora2724 :
my dad would give my mom his whole paycheck and she in turn would give him "pocket money" to go out with the guys. I'm from a Latin background, didn't know there was a whole culture that did this. The more you know...
2025-11-20 20:47:38
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‧₊˚✧willow✧˚₊‧ :
It’s true tho, my mum manages my dads money, cuz she just goes through his wallet 💀, but mostly cuz like she buys everything 💀
2024-07-14 09:15:14
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BRUDDAH EUGHHHHHHH??!!!! :
i think the man and woman both need their own bank account and a certain percentage of that goes into a joint account for savings and other important stuff
2024-04-27 21:52:41
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Ptty2203 :
So true i fall in love that time bcs he is soo good to treat me 😭 even im in asia no one that detail, he always protect me and give what i need
2024-04-27 16:09:00
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user1681648322314 :
my wife tells me what is mine is hers and what is hers is hers. I am still trying to figure this out using your division guidelines🤔
2024-04-27 13:46:44
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MightyOwl :
as an older woman, I would never go 50/50 with any man. He pays. and I get control. period. that's because if a man makes all the money and has control of all of it, the power goes to his head. He starts thinking his role is more important.
2025-08-11 11:16:54
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Rose :
My husband is from the south and he really is the sweetest human ever. He has lovely parents tho its always going to depend on how someone chooses to raise their sons!
2024-05-29 01:09:52
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no because I was in a lift and a couple was so into each other and I'm in the corner just lookin' at them😭😭😭
2024-04-28 01:35:44
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Shopaholic Queen :
Made a male China friend when I was in Shanghai last time & he would always buy me their local China food to try! Until now I still rmb his generosity so I guess it depends on luck? 😆
2024-04-26 20:48:04
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Carmie 小焯 :
my brother still looks at his wife with googly eyes of affection xD
they have been together since high school, and are their late 40s ☺️
2024-07-17 19:32:02
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Epidurallipomatosis :
Wife and I are dual Chinese American physicians, 2nd Gen, grew up in US. Wife also manages my money. She invested a bunch in Nvidia years ago. I still thank her for that.
2024-07-18 19:43:20
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🤍 :
He has been one of the nicest ppl i have ever met and he was so communicative 🥺 always used to put me first.
2024-05-11 20:30:53
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necryeo :
I think one good thing in Singapore is that you get to choose what kind of idealogy you prefer. whether be it closer to a western mindset or eastern one. We get to learn and optimize to have a better way of managing things like finances. there's no one perfect way after all
2024-04-27 07:27:25
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sannah038 :
I need to know how I can get myself a mainland Chinese man too 😭😭
2025-06-20 04:59:57
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❄️ birbyloveschristmas 🎧❄️ :
True just look at Rose and Wu Jianyun will do. Wu Jianyun treats Rose like a Queen, and they are so loving 🥰🥰
2024-05-08 14:32:00
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asian boi :
are they actually sweet or are they 舔狗 that needs to do that sucking up to keep the girl they like? douyin would show u otherwise.
2024-07-13 13:10:07
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Princess Pascual :
china men 🥰🥰
2024-05-26 04:32:16
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Winston Trust :
Omg, also trying to learn mandarin online! Can you recommend?