@bratbustersparenting: Nine year old swears a lot? I would put down on the BratBusters Behaviour Board that their rule is no swearing. This board has rules and consequences, but not just for the kids. You’re on the board too, as the whole family has to be accountable. When you’re setting yourself up as a leader for your kids, remember to take accountability for their actions, especially when they are between the ages of 3-12. That’s when you’re at the heigh of your leadership as a part. If your kids are acting out, don’t you want the accountability? When you take the responsibility for how your kids act, that’s when you can also start to improve their behaviour. So take full responsibility. It’s all about you and your leadership. You lead, they will follow. So be a leader, you become a safe place to land. You’re the one who makes them feel good about themselves. You increase their self esteem. You guide them into making good choices. When they respect you, they respect themselves. Not sure where to start in your calm leadership journey? Check out my BratBusters Behaviour Board that I send to my parenting newsletter, linked in my bio. Then, if you’re interested in learning the tools I teach for parenting like a calm leader, check out the BratBusters Bootcamp, linked in my bio. ` ` ` #ParentingJourney #ParentingTools #ParentingFromTheHeart #ParentingMindset

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buzzgold
Buzz Gold :
Any tips on sleep training a 9 month old who used to sleep great, but now wakes every few hours crying and won't stop?
2024-04-26 13:31:55
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carlyesss
Carly 🪷 :
As a parent of a child “diagnosed with ODD” I completely agree. I struggle with the behaviors I’m not around to see. He’s good with me, but not in school.
2024-05-02 11:35:31
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itzzzztrina
TrinaO :
My 11 yr swears but he NEVER says any in front of anyone but me (mom). I hate it!
2024-04-27 01:16:02
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__i.d.g.a.f
IDGAF :
"Victims of your parenting". Amen!
2024-04-26 13:37:28
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mistythomas58
MISTY THOMAS :
Gosh I love you!👏👏👏💯
2024-04-26 14:57:04
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frushky1
frushky1 :
Amen!!! So true.
2024-04-27 20:16:47
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charlottenme2
user7193386988011 :
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!!
2024-04-27 21:33:29
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petrasplayschool
petrasplayschool :
Thank you! 😊
2024-05-06 00:14:16
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70nova0
70nova0 :
So spot on! I don’t have your education but your style and opinion is exactly my parenting style. My childhood was abusive so I did everything in my power to educate myself to be the best parent 👍🏻
2024-04-27 11:30:52
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lezleeg
Les G :
Facts!!
2024-05-06 04:02:30
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lgw_lupitaguerrero
Latino Generational Wealth💫 :
I’m glad to hear accountability!! As parents we are responsible for how our child acts.
2024-05-08 15:38:33
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shardnxa08x
DaeDae1986 :
yes......yes......yes. Thank you for sharing this point of you. 👌🏾
2024-05-09 16:27:24
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brianasuniga
Briana Suniga :
What if you never see the behavior (only at school) and was dx ODD
2024-05-04 01:59:08
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shelleylynn0052
Shelley Lynn3567 :
Ok so this is my 4yr old. People saying he needs therapy. And while I agree, I know it’s parenting. But my other kids aren’t like that…it’s so hard.
2024-04-28 00:40:32
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blendedbananas
grumpypotatoo :
I had ODD, conduct disorder and social development disorder secondary to childhood PTSD. my mum did her level best. As my ptsd got treated the ODD and others got better. was on dexamphetamine for ages
2024-05-07 00:07:59
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lovenothate234
Tina :
teach me please🙏🙏
2024-04-26 21:27:10
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missnadzzz
missnadzzzxo :
completely agree
2024-04-26 21:04:48
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bet.you.i.am.bek
Rebecca Armstead MSOL CPC MCPC :
Could be PDA. PDA kids can be misdiagnosed with ODD.
2024-05-10 06:37:59
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sarah.co22
sarah.co22 :
What kind of consequences do you put on the behaviour board for the parents?
2024-04-27 03:45:31
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deb_scot
deb_scot :
Why about if they are 15? I did not have any behavioral
2024-04-26 19:42:06
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terri7900
Terri :
hard truth but I do believe it. I'm struggling with this big time and what I can do and change in our house
2024-05-06 04:14:06
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kehlimc0
kehlimc :
Yes!!!! Everh child KNOWS what they're doing with parental support.
2024-05-07 01:56:49
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mystic__144
mystic__144 :
i agree ✨✨
2024-05-08 12:34:14
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kimcleave2
kimcleave2 :
💯 that many parents couldnt b bothered just want money for them
2024-05-07 05:51:13
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johannamarcia
Johanna Marcia :
Thank you for saying ODD isn't a thing bc it sounded like bs to me. 😂
2024-05-07 18:37:39
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