I started recording them because I couldn't even remember everything after the fact because it's chaotic and exhausting and unproductive that I'd have to listen to it back to even try to understand...
2024-04-27 15:07:06
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Meagan Yeoman :
I’ve been in this for so long I can’t tell if I’m the narcissist or if he is.
2024-05-05 04:00:54
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Isabel.Nicole :
“What does accountability look like for you” ummmm the mirroring of language is also crazy.
2025-08-09 15:37:14
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elena.zaug :
HAVING TO EXPLAIN EMPATHY LIKE???
2024-04-27 07:01:38
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SadieJustBecause :
Consistently - every few weeks, round & round with no resolution. Finger pointing, word salad. I used to record him to make sense of it
2024-04-27 06:28:52
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Soul Bloom Farms :
No one ever talks about how a narcissist can apologize just to manipulate the argument to stop, but slips up and says something a day later trying to back track, proving he was never really apologetic
2024-04-29 04:54:42
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Fubarx :
I've blacked out from the amount of stress those arguments cause
2024-04-30 05:49:15
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LucidPsycheTarot :
💯 Exactly. Exhausting!!
2025-08-16 10:43:05
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kateishly :
Usually at 3am the night before a big event too. Absolutely mind bending frustration and insanity. I don’t know how I survived it.
2024-05-02 22:12:45
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lpz1133 :
I lived this… constant verbal and emotional assault. He didn’t want love, he wanted a hostage.
2024-04-27 07:19:17
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🖤 Carolyn 🖤 :
this is straight up facts. no matter how much you try to resolve the initial problem...no matter what you try...it doesn't work. It just goes in a circle
2024-04-27 05:47:28
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Vicki :
the only way I could stop these arguments was to take the blame, apologies and promise to change, even though I knew I wasn't to blame.
2024-04-27 08:08:09
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N :
I genuinely thought I was going insane or that I was explaining things wrong because I couldn’t get him to understand me. He knew exactly what he was doing. 🥺
2024-04-28 18:55:32
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𝕝𝕝𝖊𝖒𝖇𝖊𝖗 𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖆𝕝𝕝 :
my solution was dissociation and saying “okay” when prompted. the passiveness helped until it didn’t
2024-05-02 01:11:28
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Henry Cato :
It can go on for days 😤
2024-04-27 06:00:04
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Niki_LeBae :
Towards the end of the relationship, I refused to engage in the conversation and it was 4 hours of him talking to himself before falling asleep drunk.
2024-04-27 06:03:40
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Jewell :
To a T and their eyes “turn black” and everything about their demeanor is unrecognizable you they change into a stranger right before you when they get into this “mode”Literally felt like I was insane
2024-04-30 02:40:17
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jaxiesss :
And these would often conveniently happen the night before my 6am shifts. Constant lack of sleep and me desperately trying to end the conversation so that I could go to sleep but being guilted into
2024-04-28 14:06:01
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ISS Paparazzi :
not 5 hours of circular argument but 2 hours for sure and then a silent treatment.
2024-04-27 06:49:17
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monicaduff261 :
I called it being held hostage, crying uncontrollably and accepting full responsibility was the only key to the exit door.
2024-04-28 15:13:20
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Chloe Alderton :
I think 12 hours was the longest, it’s like hell interrogation hell xx
2024-04-27 07:44:42
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Katie schmatie :
So many times I’d literally scream what’s your goal for this convo because mine is to resolve an issue I have and connect emotionally to you. I never could understand what they wanted out of it
2024-04-28 19:45:20
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ItsAGamble :
YES!!! I started writing down what they said verbatim so I could look back at it later & confirm I wasn’t losing my mind. It was bananas!!
2024-04-29 05:35:35
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LadyPuck :
I hid in a closet once, curled up in a ball and cried - and he came and found me and yelled at me. For being selfish and dramatic and abusive.
2024-04-30 16:40:45
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